A Basket of Berries

A Challenge

2012-01-25T12:18:00.000-08:00

One of the biggest issues I face with teaching the boys at home is what to do with the younger two whilst I teach Doodle. Sometimes Mookie wants to join in, but never for long, and as for Samiad.... lets just say that at almost 2 years of age he is a 'house terror'. He smashed more crockery last week on the kitchen floor than I did in a year! Doodle is certainly improving in his reading but he still needs constant prompting to focus on his work. In fairness the building work doesn't help him but still, it is a constant theme throughout his life.

Something I have always found difficult is actually playing with the children. I love them to play. I want them to use their imaginations and have these wonderful games- but to actually do it with them? I have a mind that is constantly whizzing to what I need to do and I find it hard to relax and just 'be'. Hmmmmmmmmmmm. However I know that days that start off with play (rather than (Cbeebies!) have more choice and enjoyment in them.I also remembered that one of Mookie's favourite pass times at a playgroup we used to attend, was pretend role play. I am sure there is a proper educational term for it but I am sure you know what I mean!

So, it was time to push myself to action! Having 3 boys at home means I have to think for all three- there is no point Mookie getting bored while I give time to Doodle. I grabbed an old coffee table that was stored upstairs and put it up in the lounge. I added our broken keyboard, an old phone, some paper, pencils and envelopes. At this point the play became a bit less open ended as I then added in a holiday brochure :) (well I can dream can't I?)

Daddy was then invited to come in a book a holiday. I recommend this place- a 7 night stay for a family of 5 will only set you back £2! :) Samiad was the assistant. Discussions ranged from food available to days out. Mookie loved it! (and yes, the DVD is still on in the background.....)

So this morning, after 4 hours sleep (don't ask) I wanted to strike while the iron was hot. I am pleased to say that the television/DVD player stayed of until just before lunch (quite good for us!). I set up the same old table with a table cloth and then pulled out the oven and all the food/cutlery etc. that Mookie got for his birthday and Christmas. This time all three boys wanted in on the action.

Head Chef Mookie

Front of house Doodle

Daddy got a cooked breakfast............(he only gets cereal usually!)

Samiad kept adding to the table.

He was very keen to offer Daddy an ice cream......

It seems that we all benefited form this 'play based' start to the day. I am not promising there will be no more Cbeebies/DVD early mornings... they are my lifeline at times! But this certainly helped to encourage me and I am learning that a little time spent in concentrated play can really help the children to do more independent playing in the day allowing me to get on more with the business of teaching.

Choca-lota-fun

2012-01-19T11:57:00.001-08:00

A while ago, we made some of our own play dough, which the boys really enjoyed and we have been using it ever since. However the concept of play dough that smelt of chocolate finally prompted me to get the ingredients out again! I was inspired by this post from the Imagination Tree. The original idea involves making pretend chocolates and shaping them to fit into a chocolate box. Now, I did have a LARGE Thorntons one just after Christmas, but as my home is still in building works mess, I decided not to keep it for a rainy day and threw it away.I couldn't really justify buying another box of chocolates...especially when I am meant to be losing weight again :)

So, we got out the ingredients...... even made a quick dash to the shops to get some glycerine. I got all three boys around the table, actually interested in what we were doing (remarkable!) .......and then disaster struck. Last time I made play dough I did not sift the flour and found it was a little lumpy. So in pursuit of perfection (ha ha) I turned away to get the sieve. Mookie have helped me pour out the salt, Doddle was reading the instructions, so Samiad decided he wanted to help......and tipped all that remained of my plain four into the bowl :)

However, some tinkering later (not to mention an impromptu learning session about what too much flour or too much water does to the dough) we had play dough...complete with glitter :) Samiad had by this point retreated to the front room where , I am sorry to say, he has mastered the art of turning on the television.......
Despite not having a chocolate box, I had a cunning plan :) Chocolate play dough cup cakes! I must just add that the smell from this mix is divine......but don't be tempted to lick your fingers (me, do that, never.....). Doodle immediately wanted to start making them , involving a little problem solving with regards to shape and paper cases losing their form. Mookie was more interested in just playing and the most wonderful imaginary story was made.Here you see him making chocolate island, complete with a crab and a little boys footsteps in the sand :). The errant toddler then returned and started playing with the older red dough we had.

With the aid of some cookie cutters, Doodle turned red dough into icing decorations and I have to say the results look and smell fantastic......hmmmm, I wonder if anyone would forgive us if we tricked them into taking a bite.....

This delightful creation is a 'cake',made for me by my eldest with a heart in the middle awwwww- must have got something right today then!!!

I have to say I think I will be visiting some of the other 'smelly' play dough recipes....it makes it a lot more fun (although maybe next time I won't make it just before lunch time!).

Shamelessly stealing.....

2012-01-16T05:34:00.000-08:00

......ideas that is! I am blessed to have some very clever friends, one of whom is Anna. She has an amazing blog called the Imagination Tree. She specialises in early years education and is a huge supporter of the importance of play in a child's development. So I have 'borrowed' a couple of her ideas :).....which is what her blog is all about.

Last week we attempted to do some paint blowing pictures.I do not think I got the consistency right but the boys had a go (Samiad was in bed at that point!).

Mookie decided to combine his with some brush strokes too.

However, printing proved to be far more popular with them. I had some brown paper that had been used for packaging Christmas deliveries, so we got out the play doh cutters and did a bit of printing. Some of the paper was later used to wrap presents for friends :)

Following on from the post about dinosaur small world, I wanted to show you what Samiad did with the left over pasta and rice. I was very thankful for my laminate flooring that day!

This morning, whilst doing the shopping, I added a large bag of salt to my trolley along with some blue food colouring.

We then mixed a few drops of colouring with the salt in a bag et voila!!!!

We then lined a sandwich tray with some gold paper and poured on the salt!

Matthew initially enjoyed drawing some letters and making pictures. However he was not so impressed with the game 'guess what letter mummy is writing'. Maybe next time!

We soon graduated to a full sized tray as we needed more space!

Apart from stopping Doodle form eating the salt (!), this activity was great as after Mookie had given up, Doodle came and wrote out the alphabet for me in the salt. We found that using a slim crayon as a 'finger' helped form clearer letters.

So thank you Anna for prompting us to some fun and educational activities! You never know, one day I may just come up with one of my own !

In other news.

2012-01-15T13:08:00.001-08:00

This blog does seem to have become rather home education focused but then again, that is what life is for us right now. However, others things do occasionally go on here, honest! We had a lovely Christmas time spent with David's family, and my parents popped by just before New Year as did Verity and Jonathan. I paid a sneaky visit to London in early December for a 30th birthday surprise for Miriam. It did not end up being a surprise :( but we had a nice time all the same!

As you can see from this next picture, 2012 holds some exciting times for our family.

In fact, Miriam was very obliging and last Saturday 7th January I became an aunty again to a beautiful little girl named Sophie Eliza! Even more exciting was the opportunity to meet her yesterday whilst attending the Ordination and Induction of my brother, Jonathan Hunt, to the pastorate at Morton Baptist Church .

Last Sunday was a special day for David and I as we celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary. We are very aware that it is God's grace alone that has granted us such a blessed and happy 12 years. Of course it has not all been a bed of roses but we know His hand has been upon us through all we have experienced and we are thankful we can trust all the coming years to him.David was actually working a 12 hour shift that day but we managed to sneak out for lunch on the Saturday thanks to my mother in laws superior child minding skills :) (and no, I didn't make the cake)

Last week we had a special week of prayer at out church, as we do at the beginning of each year. It was encouraging to draw together as God's people in prayer more than we are usually able to.Looking forward to this week and indeed the next few weeks there will be more than enough to keep us busy. Swimming started again last week, and Mooky will be back to tennis on Thursday. I am having a 'home meet' here for Christian Home educators on Wednesday- not really local but under 2 hours drive away......We do not get to many of their weekly meet ups but it is good to share our home with them and get to know others who are walking a similar path to us.Into February we have lots of birthdays coming up......any tips on preparing a Super Mario Brothers party gladly welcomed!!!

Last week we also had the very good news that David now has 1 extra shift a week added to his contact, so not quite full time hours but as good as. We are thankful for this answer to prayer.

So, hopefully you are all now really bored by reading about out lives and I can stop typing.......... :) I think 2012 will either be the year that I blog more or dry up altogether...watch this space!

Dinosaur Small World

2012-01-10T06:19:00.000-08:00

As I mentioned previously, I thought about doing

something dinosaur related with Daniel. I posted on Anna's facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/TheImaginationTree) and asked for ideas. Anna linked to a small world dinosaur play scene she had made...so I thought we would give it a go. Doodle was really excited at the concept and wanted to start as soon as I mentioned it. So we went outside and I found a tray.

We then dyed some pasta which I had never done before (this activity was for the children, honest!). I also picked up some bark chippings from the play area in the garden. They were very wet so out came the hair-dryer!!

We then went on a dinosaur hunt in order to have them ready, and looked through his book to try and identify them all.

The next day we put our 'dinosaur world' together! Looking for foliage was somewhat curtailed by a downpour, but we had bark, chippings, rice, pasta, pearl barley, pebbles and twigs along with some leaves to work with.

Doodle wanted the stegosaurus to be hiding behind the tree......

Here it is in all it's glory. They have only properly played with it the once but they very much enjoyed the whole process, and whenever I talk about moving it from the hallway I get wails of protest. So I think we will be 'small worlding' again sometime!

Slow Start

2012-01-06T06:30:00.000-08:00

It is taking a lot of effort to get Doodle back into working this week- I am glad my expectations were not too high! We started back on Wednesday. On the plus side he today recited three poems beautifully which we have been learning since September, so something has stuck! It is also a bit difficult at the moment as we (still) have work going on at the house which means disruption in the kitchen which is our main 'work' room. Nevertheless we have begun and so I hope things will get better!

I am slightly re-arranging the work schedule this term. Well, we didn't really have one before but I have actually broken down what subjects I would like to do on what days. We have found that unless serious work is done in the morning, it does not happen. After New Years I had a bit of a wobble about doing this again- was I trying hard enough to prepare, will the boys miss out, how will I know what to teach them etc. It was a great blessing to go back to WHY we were doing this. Also of tremendous encouragement to me were my parents (unsolicited) comments after they saw Dan Doodle, regarding his behaviour.

In the run up to Christmas we had a Jesse tree and he quite voluntarily wanted to read some of the scriptures on most days. This thrilled me- partly because my boy was reading the Bible out loud, and partly because he was choosing to read!

This slow start has given us pause for thought and we have now planned out the weeks between now and the May/June break so that we will be doing some work each week- some weeks of 5 days, others (when David on leave) for 2 or 3 days. It seems we will need to keep going at some level to keep the interest up.

I am not very good at devising project ideas but my Mum gave Doodle some Answers In Genesis (I think........) dinosaur flash cards . We have a Ken Ham book called Dinosaurs for children, and so I am going to loosely have an afternoon 'dinosaur' topic. Reading through the book, doing a bit of craft etc. A bit of history, creation, and geography all in one! We shall see how it goes. I was intending to do more with Mookie this term as well but may leave it until Easter. The main goal is letter recognition and phonics, although he seems to like maths too (oh joy!). Today whilst D was reciting his poems he was trying to join in.............it is amazing how much children absorb even when you are not trying to teach them.

I have been greatly blessed in having David at home a lot over the past term. But we needed him to work more hours and we are thankful for answered prayer in that he has now, almost officially (but not quite..) been offered a further 11.5 hours- or one shift which will take him up to almost full time again. On one hand great, on the other I will need to work harder at home :)

Doodle is about to turn 7, and Samiad will be 2 shortly after. Before that we anticipate the birth of baby Harley # 3 and by brother's induction to the Pastorate at Morton Baptist Church. In between the birthdays we are looking forward to meeting baby Mitchell #1 !! So, there are some exacting times ahead.

Reasons to be cheerful (and very thankful!) 1,2,3!!!!

12 days of home school

2011-12-21T17:42:00.000-08:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RWa0rzvesCE&feature=related

This made me laugh A LOT!!!!! Please let me re-iterate I believe home ed is a personal decision and I do not think it is something God calls us all to do. But still, this is great :)

So how IS it going??????

2011-11-29T09:04:00.000-08:00

This is the question we are getting the most right now. Most people we see on a regular basis know we have taken the boys out of school. I am pretty sure the question is asked out of genuine interest and concern for us. All the same it isn't an easy one to answer. I tend to say something like-'it is going well but it is still early days', or 'it is suiting us as a family' or something equally nebulous.Both those answers are true. But somehow they do not give a good enough answer.

But even now, typing this, I am unsure how to answer it any better! I have already had many occasions of feeling blessed by having taken this decision. We are happier as a family. I have many more moments of smiling at my boys than I did before. I am really seeing Matthew learn! Daniel's reading has picked up which is GREAT!!! There are already most certainly days where it doesn't go well - having your children at home maybe cuts out the level of outside pressure stresses- but it does nothing to alleviate the 'home with three little boys' pressures :)

Then comes the question 'so how do you do it/what are you doing' at which point I have a minor panic. I am slowly learning to overcome this! After all, I am not doing this to impress someone so if they do not like my answer what does it matter?.......well, that is what I tell myself in my more confident moments anyway! Of course, confidence in answering questions only comes when you feel confident with the subject itself and I am just a novice. We are learning to accept that it is OK if it doesn't go to plan- that as long as something constructive happens in the day then that is fine.And if nothing constructive happens.....then there is always tomorrow. I am glad we have chosen a slightly structured approach though, as this gives me something specific to answer with, and also helps me feel we have achieved things! Daniel as very excited today to begin working on his 2nd spelling book- so much so that he took it on himself to do a page of writing totally voluntarily. Much better than being told to do it :)

All is quiet........NOT!!!!!!!

2011-11-17T12:13:00.000-08:00

The silence on this blog is in no way reflective of life in general. This mummy is having a crash course in keeping home, supporting her husband, teaching her children, serving the Lord in church, being a friend and anything else you care to imagine! Not that I didn't do these things before but the balance is somewhat different when your children are at home so much more. I am loving having them here though- I just need to remember to find the time to breath! :)

So since September we have gone from this :

to this

to this:

We have also celebrated this:

and thrown in some of this for fun!

not to mention some spontaneous early morning creativity

So here's a question- why spend money on dressing up clothes when mummy's shoes can bring so much fun? (sorry picture the wrong way round.)

And may I introduce the newest members of our family? The cress heads seem quite happy with their new kitchen residence :) Their hair has grown a bit since I took this. The boys think it is fantastic....... especially when mummy cuts the hair and eats it !

Today we caught the bus into town and did a bit of this.....

whilst watching this.......

So all in all we are amply keeping ourselves occupied, the needed planning of anything Christmassy is........unplanned, and the to do lists are long. Tiredness levels are up BUT smiles are on the increase too as is laughter, so I can cope (just about) with the mayhem!

And the winners are.......

2011-11-16T12:27:00.000-08:00

Sorry for the delay. Life is busier than a very busy bee making honey in a honey shortage! However, this evening I placed the names in a vase and got my eldest to pick two out- all very fair and transparent :)

The first name out was Annmarie (her name is not on the 'list' on below post as does not have a Google account but I checked...she did what I asked!) and secondly Rachel Norton! So Rachel, send me your address and your book will be on its way. If anyone does want to borrow my copy of the book you are most welcome.

Giveaway

2011-10-15T11:38:00.000-07:00

I have always wanted to do one of these but never known what to give away. Now I have the opportunity to offer you a copy of a wonderful little book called Love Oliver. If you read my blog or are friends with me on facebook you will have seen my constant postings about Oliver Gill, his fight with cancer, his sad death aged 24 weeks on Christmas day 2010, and then the fantastic charity his parents Andy and Jennifer have been able to set up. The charity Love Oliver has so far raised over £50,000 in 10 months which is amazing! The aim of this give away is to help spread awareness of this charity and the work it is doing. This is the Love Oliver web site - http://www.loveoliver.org.uk/

Andy and Jennifer are Christians and this book, as well as being a lovely way to get to know Oliver, is a real testament to their faith through the unanswerable questions and heartbreak that they have faced and still face. They blogged about Olivers illness to keep family and friends up to date and this book is a compilation of many of the posts - many written from Oliver's point of view. You can read more about the book here . This book may well make you cry, but it will also make you smile, help you to begin to understand (in a very small way) a parents grief, and leave you loving little Oliver and his gorgeous smile.

I have 2 copies of this book to give away. My aim in doing this is to promote the charity and get it more widely known so to enter you must either:
1) Like the Love Oliver page on Face Book
2) Link to this giveaway on Face Book
3) Link to this giveaway on your own blog

Of course, you are welcome to do all three, but whichever you choose, you need to leave me a comment below so I know you have done it. I will draw a winner on Monday 14th November. So please enter and share the links to the charity - that is what this is all about :)

Having fun

2011-10-06T12:08:00.000-07:00

For the most part our house is still a no go zone for the children but we have been getting on with various things regardless. More than anything though we have been enjoying our new found flexibility and HAVING FUN!!!!!!!!!

Sitting on a chair of nails (real ones, honest), at the Science museum.
In the childrens garden zone.

Space men gloves
Visiting Kew Gardens with Grandma and Grandpa

Not to mention the impromptu beach trip on September 29th! It was hot hot hot.

Obviously not living in our own home is throwing up some challenges but we are greatly blessed by the kindness and hospitality of David's parents. The house is looking good..............once you can see past the mess!.....although the cleaning is going to be a long job I think.....

Reasons for changing our educational journey

2011-09-23T12:47:00.000-07:00

Never fear...the silence on here is not because I have already disappeared under the burden of having the boys at home :) My Internet access is limited due to all the building work taking place at home. Once it is finished it will be well worth the disruption though. Daniel's first home ed lessons took place on the front room floor while the kitchen was being demolished!!!!!

Just before we formally began home educating I wrote down all our reasons for doing so. If I typed them out in full I would be here all night! I could simply say it is because we believe it to be God's will for us as a family at this time. True as that may be it is a bit simplistic. So I will attempt to explain our reasons for leaving the state education system and take full responsibility for our children's education. If any of my readers are not Christians then you may not like my reasons- but they are the reasons we have and so I am not going to pretend they don't exist.

1) God has answered prayer about this issue- turning my husbands heart toward HE when before he was not sure yet now he is fully supportive. We met a wonderful Christian educator from America (Mr Ong) who was so balanced in his discussions and willing to accept whatever decision people made- it helped to negate some of the very abrasive opinions we had been given about HE.

2) Dan Doodle is a lovable and interesting little boy. Many of our reasons had to do with him personally- and I do not think it is fair to share them all on here. But his poor concentration skills, his constant tiredness during term time and the amount of behaviour we were having to correct all played a part.

3) We want our boys to love to learn. Not to learn because they are told to. Not to see learning as being confined to the classroom. Not to get bored with certain subjects and grow to hate them because they 'have' to do them. Not to learn just to get certain grades, but to want to learn for learning's sake. Doodle was very resistant to doing ANYTHING with us at home that was learning related whilst at school as he had had enough during the week.

4) We feel that it is our responsibility. We have always been educating our children- and sharing the responsibility with the education system- but now we feel that it is our time to take full responsibility for it.

5) We want more control over what our boys are exposed to- what they see, hear and learn.We have no desire to cut them off from their friends but we want time spent in the home surrounded by our values to outweigh time spent elsewhere.

6) We want God to be openly acknowledged in our learning framework. We have not pursued a 'christian education' but we want to show our boys the daily reality of our faith - God isn't just for Sunday!

7) It will be a good thing for us as a family. We can learn and grow together and God willing as the boys grow older we can really know them and have good friendships with them as well as parenting them.

8) We can be flexible- to have visits, to choose what we learn, to tailor it to them, to go on holiday when it suits etc etc etc.

9) We can pray about and address issues as they arise- we will be much more aware of problems as we will see them ourselves.

This is not going to be easy. It will take oceans of patience and be very tiring at times. We will get frustrated . We will feel like we have failed. But we are acting in obedience to God's will for us a s a family and so do this in Hi's strength.

So those, in kind of a nutshell, are our reasons. Not very succinct- am sure I will fine tune it over the years!!! They are not in anyway meant to imply that others not doing this are outside of God's will either- the decision to home educate is a personal, family by family matter.

So far we are going OK,.We are pursuing a classical format of education- Maybe I will post about that another time. We have not started much with Mooky as yet, and that will take a bit more imagination on my part........I think I need to get my house back before I can embark on any more planning :)

Starting Over

2011-08-28T12:06:00.001-07:00

I do not know what title to give this post. It is so long since I have blogged it maybe that no one will even read it! I have just re set my blog so that anyone can read it. The reason for this is that we are starting a new era of our life as a family- we are beginning the exciting journey of taking full responsibility for our boys education in the home. So maybe, just maybe, I might be able to post things that will be helpful to others....who knows!! I did start to tinker with a re-design a while ago but that didn't get very far....one day......... :)

Rather inconveniently, our home ed journey is beginning at the same time as our downstairs re-fit work which will last 4-5 weeks- but there you go! It may actually help relieve the 'starting out' pressure, although due to the wonderful advice of several friends I am prepared not to try and do too much/achieve great things right away! But by having to be out of the house in the day and moving around a lot more for a bit we can really just take things as they come at a pace that suits us.

So that is the main news around here. I will post about why we have made this decision at some point- it is the kind of post that needs thought and prayer before becoming public. In other news, things meander along as usual. The Samiad just turned 18 months...which means it is 6 months since I last blogged. The mooky moo is almost 4 and dan doodle is fast approaching 7!!!!! David's work at the hopsital has been fraught with difficulty for about 6 months now and we are currently getting by on only 23 contracted hours a week, having to make up the rest (or not!) with extras. Not an ideal situation and rather complicated story as to how it happened. But the Lord knows the story and He knows our need and so we (try) to go faithfully on , thankful that He knows our weakness and yet loves us and cares for us.

Once all the chaos is over I am very much looking forward to my new kitchen with a BIG oven :) We had hoped to extend but that is on the back burner for now. Also I am very excited about the pending addition of not one by two new babies (DV) to the family in early 2012....not twins, just my 2 dear sisters expecting babies #3 and #1 repsectively a month apart :)

Here are my two eldest boys- I love this picture- It was taken on the little train ride at Paignton Zoo (top tip, if you go there book on line so you can skip the queues to get in....they are looooong!)

The boys and daddy in the desert house at the zoo- Matthew did not want his picture taken!

In July I performed my office as 'registered person' at a wedding for the first time. Thankfully it all went smoothly- have another one to do in December so at least I will know what I am doing this time :) :) :) may need a warmer outfit though ........(any excuse!)

The Samiad is one

2011-03-10T14:13:00.001-08:00

Just a little post as I seriously need my bed. We were thankful to God to celebrate Samuel's first birthday recently, with both sets of grandparents in attendance. I know he did not have a clue, but he seemed to enjoy it all the same. He is teething quite a bit now and we had a very bad night last night (hence my need for sleep!). He is a very adventurous little man and this evening David caught him just as he climbed onto the kitchen table..........I foresee many a bump and bruise ahead! He has his 1 yr check up next week- suprisingly on time!

"Me? No, I'm not doing anything like opening your cupboards Mummy......"Cuddles with Nanny BerryMy gorgeous 3rd boy........almost not a baby anymore :(

February

2011-02-20T13:40:00.000-08:00

OK, so technically this picture as taken in January but never mind! The Berry side of the family all came to Devon for the new Year. We had the annual game of Risk (won last year by Dorcas). They had had a trophy made and the Berry men were eager to win back the glory. Sadly for them...I won! Twice! Mwa ha ha haaaaaaaaa. Such fun!

Also in January, Daniel and Matthew changed school and pre school respectively to attend the one that is closer to our 'new ' home. we are thankful that they both seem to have settled in well and are making friends. As they get older and spend time with other children we are facing more battles, especially on the obedience and attitude front! But it is wonderful to see them learning and growing. I am still involved in the old pre school and it is a huge drain on me- in time, emotion and effort. The good news is I will not be involved after July. The bad news is it is will be closing in July. But there is precious little that can be done about that- so I am starting to pray that the staff will get new jobs and hopefully will not feel the need to sue us for their redundancy pay!!

On the house front, we are slowly getting things done. The bathroom is pretty much finished apart from a new window..but that will have to wait! The ugly gas fire and huge concrete surround are now gone and we have a beautifully plastered wall waiting to be painted. Plans have been submitted for an extension..we will wait and see what happens!

Of course, the beginning of February saw Daniel's 6th birthday. It was good to see him inviting new friends form school to come along to his party. e went and played at Fundzerzone and then we walked back here for tea and cake. Ideal living so close as a 'proper Funderzone party' would have cost an arm and a leg!

This was his face first thing as he walked into the front room (note, ugly brown paint on door not yet neutralised!) I am so pleased he still has that excitement and wonderment- long may it last- as so much commercialism and such great expectations seems to be sold to children these days.

Yesterday it was my birthday (seems to happen like that each year...) and on Friday Samuel will turn one!!! Arrgggh! He now has 3 teeth, wears 'cruiser' shoes, can stand alone and furniture walks- not to mention his super speedy crawling and stair climbing. The phrase most heard out of my mouth at the moment is 'is the gate shut?'...... :) He also says 'hello' ( like hiyoo) and 'Amen'.

And now it is half term- for which I am infinitely thankful. Hopefully a chance to shut off from pre school and enjoy some home work free time with the boys. We are looking forward to the visit of Grandma and Grandpa during the week- nicely timed to coincide with Samuel's birthday.

Well, hope that earth shatteringly exciting update hasn't left you too amazed! This is a season for 'plodding' it seems- doing what needs to be done and realising that the list never ends.I am currently reading 'Ever, only, all for Thee' - a collection of bits of Francis Ridley Havergals' writings and a short history of her life. I am in awe! Such faith and devotion- and what a very skilled and gifted lady. I trust that even in my plodding, I can do it to the best of my ability :)

Birthday Month

2011-01-25T11:16:00.001-08:00

We are almost in February and seeing as we have 3 Berry birthdays upcoming I thought I would change the background :)

December 23rd

2010-12-23T11:47:00.000-08:00

Yikes! Despite the fact that I have all my presents to wrap and lots of tidying to do I am going to give just a bit of time to this poor neglected blog! You are all probably too busy with getting ready for Christmas to read it but never mind! I have been meaning to update for ages but either haven't had the time or else have been too tired when I have had the time.

So, 2010 is almost over. Well, it has certainly been a busy year- but then any year that involves the birth of your 3rd child, the near collapse of your pre school and moving house are going to be quite hectic I guess! I wish I could say the house is nice and quiet right now, but Samuel is crying.....the other two are asleep. They are pretty much exhausted by bed time...just as well really! David is off on a night shift- he is working tomorrow night as well which means Christmas morning will involve a bleary eyed daddy- I am in charge of driving us all to London in time for lunch! God willing there will be no more snow or ice to contend with.

Helping (?)mummy decorate the tree.

We moved on October 1st, and all went smoothly, despite the very heavy rain. Several of my old neighbours have been telling me that the couple who bought our house have been gutting it. We knew they had plans but it does make me feel a little bit sad. There is endless work to do on the house we have moved to- but all in good time. Today David started to paint the bathroom and it makes such a difference already. He did all the tiling too- most impressive :) I am very much looking forward to a little time away from here- and the boys want to see Grandma and Grandpa's new house. Matthew has been asking this question for about the past 4 weeks 'Can we go to Grandma and Grandpa at Christmas? (me)- Yes, (Matthew) is it Christmas today?' Bless him!

Matthew celebrated his third birthday shortly after we moved. All the boys seem to have accepted the new house without any problems. e called it our 'new special house' for a while and Matthew still sometimes refers to it as that.

I am actually feeling a bit unwell now and have been for a few days so hopefully it will pass.

After Christmas, we have the start of a new school.We decided that it just was not practical driving to and fro from Landkey several times a day, no more so than last Friday when I skidded around trying to drive out there. With the increase in icy, snowy winters we are having, a school within walking distance will be ideal. I will have to remain involved with the pre school management for now, but thankfully another committee member is taking on the role of chair..I think I am going to be secretary :)

A rare shot of David and I- taken last week at his works Christmas meal. He has now left the pre operative clinic and will be focusing on his ward work. This will mean a bit less stability for me in terms of knowing his working hours and we do not have guaranteed extra shifts for him, but their are usually plenty spare so we wait on the Lord to provide for our needs.
We had a lot of snow overnight on Friday- maybe 5 inches fell in 5 hours. It is certainly the most we have had in such a short space of time, and so early on. However I know compared to much of the country this is nothing! The boys like going out in it but only for short periods of time. Matthew especially seems to feel the cold and gets very upset if chilled!

When you write things down they don't seem like much do they? But I know this year has been very busy and at times very hard going. We thank God for His hand which has kept us and lifted us out of the 'miry clay' when we have been sinking.

So if you read this before Friday then may I wish you a very Happy Christmas and a blessed and peaceful New Year xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

End of an era

2010-08-30T13:49:00.001-07:00

David and I have lived in our current house for just over 8 years, and to be honest we are in danger of outgrowing it. However its location is lovely and the school run is convenient, and I have a year old kitchen etc etc. 2 years ago (or was it 3 ?) we decided to try and sell it as, despite all its attractions, we felt we should be on the estate where the church was. Nothing happened so we felt content to stay. Time passes- Daniel started school in the village, Matthew the pre-school (of which I am still chairperson) and Samuel was born. Despite knowing we would have to move at some point it seemed out of our reach financially. And then this happened!
An elderly gentleman who had attended our church for 7 years passed away and his beneficiary did not want the house. We can only assume they must have discussed it because she offered it to us as a private sale. We were able to offer at the lowest valuation, which was accepted by the estate. Then we had to sell our own property. Talk about a fleece! It was on the market for 2 days before we had a viewing booked. The young couple liked it but decided it was not for them. 2 more viewings with no result. Then the couple came back for a second and much more interested viewing. The next day a single lady came to see it. On the Friday she made an offer - too low for us to accept. As the couple had stated they would make an offer the estate agent informed them of the situation. And a bidding war ensued. We could not believe it- they both ended up offering the asking price and we had to choose between the buyers! The house was only on the market for 2.5 weeks!
The Lord's hand has been in this so clearly. Now is His time for us to move to the estate. We will be a 3 minute walk from church and many things will be much more convenient. But it is with regret that I say goodbye to this village. Daniel will still come here to school, at least for now as he likes it so much here. This means I will have to have the car..but it will be much easier for David to get into work anyway. The house itself, although not big, is a bit bigger than ours and a much better layout for a family home. But it needs WORK!!!!!!!! Every room needs re carpetting/flooring, decorating, needs new kitchen, 2 toilets and a possible extension. I have to keep thinking about its potential.......

Aside from all this, summer has passed in a flash. At the beginning of July we had a thanksgiving service for the birth of Samuel to tie in with my parents trip to Devon. My Grandma was there too which was lovely.
We did not go away although David had 2 weeks off (in the midst of all the selling excitement). We had some family days out, and went to Minehead for the day to see Jonathan and Clare who were on holiday there. Here is Samuel on Aunty Clare's lap at the beach.

We were then blessed over the Bank Holiday weekend with the kindness of others which enabled us to get away to Dawlish for a couple of days. It was a refreshing break and the weather was beautiful.....here are Daniel and Matthew having some paddling fun with Daddy. Daniel was much more adventurous than usual...the swimming crash course must have paid off!

And now the first week of school term has ended, we are awaiting a completion date, and once again everything will be go go go...so this probably will not be updated for ages again. I give my apologies now!

Kitchen meme

2010-08-03T14:21:00.000-07:00

I have not done a meme in absolutely ages so when I saw this at Lizzie's I felt compelled to do it :)

1. Do you have magnets on your fridge?

Oh yes, the boys love them! Letters, numbers, teddy bears, funny quote- I have a messy fridge!

2. Do you have a calendar in your kitchen, if so, what’s the theme of it?

Yes- I live by my calendar It has five columns, one for each of us, although the 5th has birthdays and anniversaries on it. It is on the side of my fridge and usually has a lot of writing on it. This year I have a farm themed one- not particularly by choice. I have often had Winnie the pooh ones (because I am so mature :)

3. What is your favorite kitchen gadget?

Right now it is my Pampered Chef rice cooker. I was forever over boiling the rice but that is now all a thing of the past :)

4. Are you lucky enough to have a pantry of some kind?

Nope. The house we are moving to does have a cupboard that could be used like a pantry but I have a feeling it will be for toy storage instead.......

5.What is your favorite appliance?

Hmmmm- well I do like having my microwave. I really missed it when it broke a while ago. But then I would be really lost without my washer /dryer...and I got ever so excited when I bought a fridge/freezer.....

6. Do you have an eat in kitchen (table in it)?

Yes we do, which is just as well as we have no dining room in our house.

7. Do you have a bread box?

Yes, and it is 10 years old (the box, not the bread in it!) as it was a wedding gift.

8. Do you have a picture of your kids on the fridge?

No....those pics are in the lounge.

9. Do you ever cook breakfast in your jammies?

Cook? You mean some people have time to cook breakfast? I do get breakfast in my pjs from time to time.....

10. Do you have a favorite cookbook that you use?

Well I am currently using a lot of Slimming World recipes. I do like my Nigella Lawson books too- although they are full of high fat foods (yum yum yum!)

11. Are you lucky enough to have recipes that were passed down from your mom or grandma?

Not from my gran but I do have a lot of the recipes my mum used when we were little- not hers originally, but family favourites none the less.

12. What’s your favorite food?

Well I would be lying if I didn't include chocolate but I am actually a savoury girl. Crisps and crackers.....droool and I love a jacket potatoe as well.

13. What’s your favorite thing to cook?

I don't really have one. Although I don't dislike cooking I am not someone who loves it either.

14. Is your coffee pot electric or stove top?

I don't have a coffee pot.

15. Do you ever make your own bread?

I used to in my bread machine. The it broke. My m-i-l let me use hers but it wasn't the same and now I am back to buying it again.

16. Name one thing that you have hanging on your wall in your kitchen:

A green oblong clock with geese on it.....another wedding item I think!

17. Is there a clock in your kitchen?

Read above! Also on the microwave.

18. Do you have a bowl of fruit sitting on your table or counter?

Yes and at the moment it is very full as I have just been shopping! I love my fruit bowl- It is yellow with tulips on it and rather large!

19. What type of canisters do you have?

Canisters? you mean like storage jars? My tea canister is silver. Apart from that most things that are stored are put in plastic pots.

20. Does your kitchen have a theme?

No.

21. What’s for supper tonight?

We had spaghetti bolognaise and tomorrow it will be butternut squash and lentil curry with rice.

22. Do you have enough cabinet space?

Well, I could always do with more but I have a lot more than I used to.

23. Does your family use paper plates?

No

24. Do you have a good set of china?

Again, no.

25. Do you wear an apron to work in your kitchen?

Very rarely.

26. Name one thing, if anything, that you would like to change about your kitchen.

I would love to not have my washing machine in the kitchen.

Feel free to do it too and let me know if you do :)

Pictures

2010-06-13T13:16:00.000-07:00

Here are some more pictures- as I have nothing spectacular to say I'll let the pictures talk :) We had a great half term week holiday in London despite David becoming ill on the Thursday.. Saw lots of friends, went out in the sun, and I even lost a bit of weight probably through my mums gi cooking. But now that I am back home........!

Cuddles with Uncle Mike

Cuddles with Great Grandma!

Three cutie pies! I do so loooooooooooooooooooooooooove my boys (well, most of the time anyway!) And a true Britiish Bank Holiday - picnic in the cold drizzle on Tabernacle Outing...the boys had fun! Dan, Matt and Nat in a tent.

only 4 weeks late......

2010-05-11T10:47:00.000-07:00

Wow- I can hardly believe I am sat at this computer with all three boys in bed! Admittedly the downstairs has not been tidied or vacuumed yet but hey- I have the rest of the evening for such joys. As I was meant to do a catch up post during the Easter I shall seize the opportunity now.

Samuel is almost 11 weeks old (eek!) He had his first lot of jabs last week- seemed to cope quite well with them ( and I spoke too soon- he has just woken up so there goes my quiet blogging time!)

He has a mighty set of lungs on him and knows how to get attention! He is feeding well and only usually wakes once at night so no complaints from me there!

Matthew is a gorgeous boy with a very strong will- parenting him is something of a challenge and quite exhausting- but he is very much worth it. We potty trained him at Easter and he is going great guns. he has recently started pre school one morning a week and loves it! Here he is loving on his baby brother.....the words 'gently Matthew' are heard frequently in this house!

OK, it is now a whole week later.......with David, three boys, pre- school and home keeping I do not seem to have time for anything else! So Samuel is now 12 weeks old- almost 3 months!

Daniel continues to really enjoy school which is a blessing. He is particularly fond of numbers and sequences....obviously takes after daddy.....However school definitely has a negative effect on his behaviour and attitude and so we are having to work hard to counter bad influences. He has made a few special friends which we are really pleased about. He may struggle next term though as year one is very much worked based as opposed to play, and he does like his 'choosing' time!

He brings home weekly maths challenges. This one was 'how many books do you need to measure your height...good old preachers homiletic!
We took a trip to Exmoor Zoo during the Easter holidays- well worth a visit if you are down this way. The boys enjoyed it and I am really glad we went as Daniel was unable to attend the Sunday School outing there a couple of weeks later.

iEaster morning.....see, the love of chocolate is genetic! :)

As for David and I, well, by God's grace we are coping with a very busy phase of life although we are frequently very tired. The Pre School continues to be a huge commitment (and burden) for me. The past few months have been horrendous but we think we have faced the worst.......hopefully! Now got to begin recruitment process for some tricky hours- jolly dee!
Well, will sign off for now as am typing one handed whilst Samuel slobbers on my left hand!

A conversation with Daniel

2010-04-10T07:52:00.000-07:00

D: Mummy, when are we going to move house?
M: Not for a long time darling.
D: Why?
M: Because we do not have enough money to buy another house.
D: Then you shouldn't have spent it all mummy.
M: (laughing) we have enough money to live here and buy the things we need but houses are very expensive.
D: Why don't we have enough money mummy? Daddy goes to work.
M: Yes, but mummy doesn't. If mummy went to work we would have lots of money but mummy and daddy think it is important for mummy to look after you boys. If I went to work who would look after you?
D: (thoughtful pause ) I could look after Samuel and Matthew mummy.
M: Do you think you could get them dressed, change nappies, get food etc? And what would you do if they got hurt?
D: I would kiss it better.
M: (giggle)
D: And if it was bad and there was blood I would ring you and you could come home from work , get the plasters down and then go back to work (Mummy now trying very hard not to laugh out loud).
M: That is very kind of you Daniel but mummy would get in trouble if she left you to look after your brothers.
D: Why?
M: Because you are too young darling.
D: (with indignation) But I am a big boy mummy..........I'm a big boy!

An Easy Read

2010-03-05T23:13:00.000-08:00

Book review for Booksneeze. Plain Pursuit by Beth Wiseman.

I very rarely read 'Christian Fiction' so this was an interesting review for me. The story starts with journalist Carley having to take an enforced break from her job due to personal tragedy. She goes to stay with her long time friend who has married into the Amish community. What follows is an interesting insight into the values and life style of the Amish people, especially for someone from the UK, this is an area about which not a lot is understood.

The plot line of the story is somewhat predictable, and yet the reader still wants to find out what will happen and the writer manages to present the story in such a way that the emotions of compassion, sorrow and joy are felt in the reader as they follow Carley on her story. This is a love story as well as a commentary on family life, marital faithfulness and above all forgiveness and acceptance.

Its overall message is somewhat vague in reference to how forgiveness is found from God, but none the less it is a pleasant read and will fill a few hours with wholesome entertainment. I have already lent it to others to read.

Samuel David Berry

2010-02-27T12:14:00.000-08:00

I am delighted to introduce our third son, Samuel, who was born on Thursday 25th February at 7.29 pm, weighing 8lbs, 13.5 oz (to be precise!) We were able to go home three hours later and all is well. Praise the Lord!

Still here

2010-02-04T02:50:00.000-08:00

Hello ;)

Well, yes, I am still here- 2 1/2 weeks to go until this big bump is due. I must confess to have really struggled with weeks 35- 36- no idea why. But now I am much calmer and happy just to wait for God's good timing- He has never ever got it wrong before! Last week I ended up on the maternity day assessment unit after having had visual disturbances- flashing white lights in front of my eyes which I had with Daniel. But everything was fine- even after being re- assessed 2 days later. So no idea what that was all about but I am thankful I was able to get it checked out. In fact I am probably better at this pint with this pregnancy than I was with either of the others- my bp is good and I trust it stays that way.
Each time one of my friends give birth I am delighted....and just a tad jealous- but my time will come!

Anyway, we have had a Sunday School winter party, Daniel's 5th birthday party, his actual birthday and some pre school crises to deal with over the past 3 weeks- and despite the tiredness and stiffness they have been welcome distractions. I have even packed my bag (thanks Abi!) although everything does not fit in...but we may even manage a home birth third time round- we will see! We have bought a pram and am just waiting on the arrival of some moses basket sheets. Then we are set to go ;)

The boys are great- Matthew's sleep patterns leave something to be desired but we are being given the strength that we need and know we are surrounded by lots of love and support. I even managed to take the ladies bible study after spending and afternoon. evening and then another morning on the assessment unit- God is good (and I picked a short and easy Psalm...what a cheat!)
I will post some birthday pics soon but right now need t take advantage of the quiet house to do a bit of tidying (David has taken Matthew out to buy a birthday present.....now who could that be for? ;)!

Please Pray

2010-01-14T11:34:00.000-08:00

A lady I know, called Rebecca Barrow gave birth yesterday at 25 weeks. No idea about details etc- just that baby Vincent is in Derriford Hospital (Plymouth) a good 1 1/2 hours from here. Beccy and her husband Rob are Christians. Rob recently joined the Bideford street pastors scheme.They have a little girl called Minnie who is younger than Matthew.
Please pray for this family and that, if the Lord wills, little Vincent will grow to be a strong and healthy child. Thanks

29/01/2010- have added latest news about him in comments section.

Schools still out

2010-01-07T05:35:00.000-08:00

I was a bit surprised to find that school was closed today- but then the ice round here is plenteous. Hopefully normal service will resume tomorrow. Still not sure if we can safely make our trip to London tomorrow which will be a bit disappointing. I would greatly appreciate your prayers as I am suffering from a lot of stiffness and pelvic pain at the moment- more so than in previous pregnancies, and it is making it hard to cope with the boys (and I am afraid making me rather short of temper too :( Have also started getting calf cramps in the mornings...ow.ow.ow!

Anyway, here are some more pictures of yesterdays snowy adventures.

Our back 'garden' steps- place hasn't looked this nice since it snowed last year :)

The boys were very pleased with the snowman...thankfully they are too little to insist that mummy does a better job yet!

Tomorrow (08/01/2010) is our tenth wedding anniversary. Wow. I still remember the smiles people gave us when we said we had been married for '1 week' or '1 month' or '1 year' and the cynical comments -'newly weds- still in the honey moon bubble' etc. Well it has not been plain sailing but we thank God that He has kept us to this point- He alone can be given the credit for our blessed and happy marriage.

Snow!

2010-01-06T02:30:00.000-08:00

Snowed lots yesterday and even more today. Daniel was a bit disappointed at not being able to go back to school- but I was thankful as I woke up with a bad headache. David could not get to work until about 10- the hospital sent out a 4 wheel drive to pick him up...I just hope they bring him home again! Pictures taken on Tuesday
This was first thing Tuesday morning before it bagan to fall in earnest.

Hymn 3

2009-12-23T11:20:00.000-08:00

OK, so I have not been as good at doing this as I should have been. Life as ever is pretty busy here. I am relieved that we are on school holidays- no school run! especially as it has been so cold and snowy the past few days. The boys are well although a night cough keeps waking Matthew up and he seems to end up in our bed rather a lot. I have (literally) just won a battle of wills with him- he was screaming and crying at his bedroom door but I have just heard him give up and get into bed and now it is (almost) quiet-although he is probably in Daniel's bed :) Better there than in mine I say!

Anyway, we are pretty much ready for Christmas time- I just need to wrap all the presents.
I am torn as to what hymn to share- hymns about Christ's incarnation are so marvellous.

Thou who wast rich beyond all splendour,
All for love's sake becamest poor;
Thrones for a manger didst surrender,
Sapphire paved courts for stable floor.
Thou who wast rich beyond all splendour,
All for love's sake, becamest poor.

Thou who are God beyond all praising,
All for love's sake becamest man;
Stooping so low, but sinners raising
Heav'nwards by Thine eternal plan.
Thou who art God beyond all praising
All for love's sake becamest man.

Thou who art love beyond all telling,
Saviour and King, we worship Thee.
Emmanuel, within us dwelling,
Make us what Thou wouldst have us be.
Thou who art love, beyond all telling,
Saviour and King we worship Thee.

Frank Houghton 1894-1972

Why Private?

2009-12-08T01:27:00.000-08:00

A few of you have asked why I have made my blog private- so I will try and give a brief answer. I have been toying with the idea for a while now.This blog is generally only read by those who know me- and is pretty much only written for those who have an interest in our family. In the past, on old blogs, I participated in more tings and had a wider readership but that is no longer the case.

I have not had any nasty comments recently, but have done in the past- so I guess this just helps avoid that issue! I have also recently had too much experience of people mis-understanding what has been written or publicly calling me out (in other arenas) and I do not want that on my blog- so avoidance seemed the best answer! I was going to stop blogging all together but cannot quite bring myself to that :)

Also, I suppose, as the boys get older, it is good to give them a bit more privacy- I want to know who is seeing/reading what. And as is often the case within the UK reformed Christian circle, lots of people know each other. Whilst I am always very careful about what I write, I feel a particular burden as David is an elder in our church, not to do anything that may offend/cause others to stumble/ or bring disrepute to the name of Christ. So again, knowing who is reading this will, I hope help me avoid any such issues.

I have also been challenged by several scriptures in Proverbs recently- not just about the tongue but about specific things such as speaking out before you know the facts and not dividing others by your words. I have them written down somewhere so will share them another time.

It is funny- my motives for blogging now are so different to when I started back in 2005. Back then I thought I had some wisdom to share- ha ha! Now this is just a 'keeping up to date and sharing info' site. Suits me fine! So I suppose my next psot should be an updating one!

Hymn 2

2009-12-03T05:54:00.000-08:00

Hat tip to Sarah Fiodarova for reminding me about this hymn. It is in Christian Hymns.

Let earth and heaven combine,
Angels and men agree,
To praise in songs divine,
The incarnate deity,
Our God contracted to a span,
Incomprehensibly made man.

He laid His glory by,
He wrapped Him in our clay;
Unmarked by human eye,
The latent Godhead lay:
Infant of days He here became,
And bore the mild Immanuel's Name.

Unsearchable the love
That hath our Saviour brought:
The grace is far above
Or man or angel's thought:
Suffice for us that God we know,
Our God, is manifest below.

He deigns in flesh to appear,
Widest extremes to join;
To bring our vileness near,
And make us all divine:
And we the life of God shall know,
For God is manifest below.

Made perfect by His love,
And sanctified by grace,
We shall from earth remove,
And see His glorious face:
Then shall His love be fully showed,
And man shall then be lost in God.

Charles Wesley 1707-88

2009-12-01T11:40:00.001-08:00

As it is December I thought I could get away with a festive background :)

Hymn 1

2009-11-25T23:38:00.000-08:00

All glory to God in the sky,
And peace upon earth be restored!
O Jesus, exalted on high,
Appear our omnipotent Lord!
Who meanly in Bethlehem born,
Didst stoop to redeem a lost race,
Once more to Thy creatures return,
And reign in Thy kingdom of grace.

When Thou in our flesh didst appear,
All nature acknowledged Thy birth;
Arrived the acceptable year,
And Heaven was opened on earth;
Receiving its Lord from above,
The world was united to bless
The Giver of mercy and love,
The Prince and the Author of peace.

O come, and to us be made known!
Again, in the Spirit, descend.
Set up in the hearts of Thine own
A kingdom that never shall end.
Thou only art able to bless,
And make rebel sinners obey;
Now bid human enmity cease,
And bow countless souls to Thy sway.

Charles Wesley 1707-88

Warning....

2009-11-13T05:54:00.001-08:00

If you do not looooooooooove Christmas (!) then I am just warning you that I am going to start posting seasonal hymns again. I love doing this each year...although I probably post my favourites each year ;)

Voices of the Faithful

2009-11-07T00:58:00.000-08:00

It is high time I wrote this review! Voices of the faithful is a devotional book. There is a page for every day of the year, with thoughts, stories and inspiration from Christians around the world who are serving the Lord in a missionary capacity. This is book 2 in the series.

Each month has a theme, such as 'Prayer the Priority' or 'Lessons from the young'.

Whilst this book will cause the reader to praise God for His great working, and will remind them of many prayer needs, it is not a book that is full of deep spiritual 'meat'. I enjoyed reading the daily passages and the words that accompany them. However it would not be a sufficient 'intake of the word' for the day. I know this is probably not the intent of the book and for what it is, it is is very well written and presented and reminds us of just how great and good our God is, and how much we have to be thankful for on a daily basis.

At the back of the book is an index for which day various scriptures are used, as well as information on missions, the churches role in supporting missions, and the two compilers of the book- Kim.P Davis and Beth Moore.

(This book review was written for Thomas Nelson Publishers)

Fancy dress and birthdays

2009-10-16T13:18:00.001-07:00

I suppose it has been a busy few weeks here really. I had my scan last week (22 weeks tomorrow) and all is well praise the Lord. He really has been very good to us with our children's growth and health.

Last Friday, Daniel had a fancy dress day at school, the theme being Africa. My mum kindly made up an outfit from 'real African material' given to her, and my dad brought it down with him. I made a little hat (amazing what sellotape and cardboard can turn into!

Then at about 4.30 on Friday afternoon we decided we would all drive to London (David was going anyway for seminary). So I got ultra organised and the boys were fed, packed and in their pj's by 6.15. Then we set off. On Saturday we went and saw Verity's 'new' flat- and the boys had great fun climbing on her coffee table and chucking her cushions on the floor so trey could roll on the sofa :)

After that we went to visit 'aunty mimmy, Nathanael and Kezia'. The boys had fun......although the ladybirds who invaded the kitchen caused a bit of a diversion!

I even managed to get a picture of the 4 of them together- no mean feat with my children! Nathanael was obviously sharing some highly amusing joke with Matthew!

And then, to top it off, Matthew turned 2 on the Monday! We got him a garage from ebay which was a hit. His Nanny and Grandad came round for tea along with his friend Aaron. He didn't have a clue what was going on, but enjoyed the balloons and Daniel got to practice his present opening skills ('I'll help you Matthew...')

DIY with Dad!

2009-10-14T05:31:00.000-07:00

A couple of weeks ago my dad very kindly made to 200 mile journey to Devon to help us with some diy. The boys loved seeing him too :)
These shelves used to be in my parents front room in a different formation. They now fit in our alcove and are ideal! We have been able to move our small bookcase from by the door and put it under the shelves which opens the room up much more. What is more, the preachers homiletic has left my bedroom! ...... only to be replaced by more books etc but hey...it is a start! Actually I now have quite a bit of sorting and re-arranging to do. This picture was taken out of the window hence the slanting bottom! The main project was the cutting down of lots of tree things (!) which made up our 'back fence'. (see left of photo- the right side had already been demolished by this point). By taking them down we have added a good few inches to our garden size.

Matthew entertained himself quite well sitting amongst the debris but was not impressed at being taken inside when the power tools were being used!This was just so cute! I have a lovely picture of them walking down the road together from the back too. Matthew helped David push the wheelbarrow round from back to front to load up the car several timesAnd this is what the bushes were replaced with- I know, I know, this picture was taken before it was all finished. It does now have a gate too! Next we need to sort out the mess that is our little back garden- we are thinking of turfing part of it. It is not particularly child friendly due to the concrete steps and two level lay out- but we can hopefully make it look a lot better.

There may well be another post this week (I know, shocking!) as have lots more pics to share :)

Etc

2009-09-29T13:24:00.000-07:00

I have been asked for an update post with pictures of the boys. The truth is I have not taken any for quite a while...and I have to be on the ball to catch the boys- neither of them like posing for the camera. Daniel had us worried last night when his temperature soared and his breathing seemed a bit off- but by this morning he was pretty much 100% again and went off happily to school. We are so thankful that he is enjoying it and it is quite exciting to see the progress he has already made in such a short space of time. 2 weeks yesterday will be Matthew's 2nd birthday and 2 weeks today I will (God willing) have had my 21 week scan which I am looking forward to.

We had a happy day on Saturday when we had our church away day at Heatree Activity Centre on Dartmoor. The weather was good and the children had a lovely time ( as did the adults). David even got the chance to do a bit of climbing :)

Anyway, in lieu of any really up to date pictures here are a couple from our family holiday at the end of June (it feels like such a loooooooooong time ago!)

This was actually taken in August. Matthew looks very much like his cousin Luke here.

In the caravan

On the beach. We had fantastic weather.

One Week On

2009-09-10T07:21:00.001-07:00

A week ago today Daniel had his first day at school- and he has not looked back since! I was concerned about the dressing/undressing for P.E (which they have for 1/2 hour every day) . The teacher told me that he got himself changed although he needed some direction and help with his socks (apparently he got upset and told his 'naughty toes' off when they would not go into his socks). Little tinker! Can I get his to change properly at home??!!! But he is slowly getting better. Anyway, we are thankful to God for such blessing on our dear boy. Once he gets the hang of all things school I will start thinking about some swimming lessons. It is a bit tricky as I do not know if I will have the car from month to month but I am sure it will work out.

David has had 2 days off although most of it has been spent in front of the computer preparing two new sermons for Sunday. I am quite excited that my Dad and maybe my mum will be coming to visit at the end of the month to help with some DIY tasks.

My pregnancy seems to be going well. I am almost 17 weeks. Last week I heard the babies heart beat at my mid wife appointment. I have not yet seen my usual mid wife as she has been off sick but I think she is back soon. Mind you, she did not deliver either of my boys. The sickness is past. It has definitely been less severe this time- although having the other 2 to look after does mean you just have to get on with it. I a getting pretty tired though. And my grey matter is getting constant workouts at the moment thanks to Pre-School. It has been quite stressful as our administrator died at the beginning of July (which was very sad), and I have had sooooooo much stuff to work out and sort through....and then there are the effects of the recession and lower numbers of children at the moment. Even the school is lower on numbers but of course it all has a knock on effect. Anyway, much prayer is needed to keep me going. But I took on this job so I had better suck it up and do my best!

So that is that! Matthew is as bositerous as ever and very loud of voice! But loveable all the same :)

An explanation for the silence

2009-08-11T02:42:00.000-07:00

I have been feeling pretty rubbish. Tired everyday, feeling sick most days.....must be pregnant (like you didn't already know!)

But the Lord has been very gracious in enabling us to do what needs to be done- I was well enough to teach my Sunday School lesson and to attend the North Devon Show. David is pulling more than his fare share of household duties at the moment as well as working and his duties at church. The children are driving me slightly insane today, but overall the holidays have been good so far.

Pre-School business has been trying as sadly, our administrator died at the beginning of the holidays so there has been lots to learn and do in a short space of time.

Baby Berry is officially set to enter the world on February 20th but we will try not to get too fixed on the date as we know what these babies are like!...and no, I have no preference for boy or girl- in fact, I can 'do' boys and have all the clothes already.

Here he/she is in his/her first public appearance.

As clear as mud huh?!

Bugs

2009-07-29T08:42:00.000-07:00

Just to say I am down with a bad tummy bug at the moment. Slowly recovering and would value prayers for Sunday as I am down to teach open school. (Also David on 12 hours sat and sunday)

Out with the old and in with the new

2009-07-13T06:41:00.000-07:00

'Your old kitchen was out by 10am. It was disgusting and falling apart...how did you manage with it for so long?'...I didn't take these words personally as they were my own thoughts but it is always good to know you haven't been frivolous! While we were away (more on that another time), our friend Andy and his workmate Justin gutted our kitchen and I now finally have a new kitchen. Hooray! There are still one or two more little 'sorting out bits' to be done, and I need to re-paint, but I am pleased to say I like it a lot! I now have somewhere to store my plates! The bread maker can stay out ready for use....and best of all, the curtain is gone. This has motivated David and I to have a big clear out...look out car boot sale, here we come (when the sun shines....)

So here are some 'before and after' shots.

The beautiful curtain which replaced the doors when the cupboard carcass deteriorated and they fell off!

My old oven with broken door- bet you wish you had one....not to mention the grill that always set off the smoke alarm!Excuse David..........do you like the wonky fixed cupboards?

*ahhhhhhhhh*......sigh of contentment.

Should have moved the t-towel before taking the picture! :)

Fridge where the old oven used to be and look.......no plates on the top! (just some other junk yet to be given a home!)

The new storage cupboards where the fridge used to be. Opposite them is the table in the same place it used to be. You can't see the floor that well but it is a slate grey tile effect lino.

So, although it still has to be kept clean (groan) it was worth the 7 year wait!

The Wackiest Wildest Weirdest Animals in the World

2009-07-10T12:07:00.000-07:00

This time I chose to review a children's book- and I am really looking forward to sharing this one with my boys as they grow up. 'Jungle' Jack Hanna is the presenter of the Emmy-winning 'Jack Hanna's Into The Wild'.

In this book he brings us 30 of the 'most interesting animals in the world'. Have you ever heard of the blue-footed booby? I certainly hadn't until I picked up this book!

Each animal has a single page spread, with pictures on one side, information on the other, and little bullet point facts such as 'what they eat', 'where they live', and how big they get'.

The pictures and colours are eye catching and the book is great for dipping in and out of for children and adults too - especially those of you who do children's talks!

But best of all this book is written by a man seeking to show the wonder of God's creation. No creeping through the pages waiting for the inevitable 'evolution/millions of years' thing. It simply is not here.

This particular book comes complete with a 'blunders, bloopers and behind the scenes' DVD, so those of us who are not familiar with Mr Hanna get the chance to see him in action, and those who do know him get to see him in his not so award winning moments!

Hair Cut

2009-06-24T01:58:00.001-07:00

Yesterday Matthew had his 2nd hair cut. It was badly timed as he was quite tired so we ended up with clippers rather than scissors to do the job! I think I need to get me a set.

A trip 'Home'

2009-06-16T14:11:00.000-07:00

Last Friday morning I left the house at 5.30 am and drove to London...alone!!!!!!! Oh the bliss of a journey without little people. I was only away until Saturday night but David was well supported by his mum and the Pastor's wife. Daniel did tell me that he had missed me on my return (I should think so too!) and Matthew gave me a lovely smile. Although it was a lot of driving, 40 hours sans kiddies left me feeling quite refreshed( and it lasted at least 3 days........)

However, you will be pleased to know that I changed 2 nappies, made lunch for a toddler, gave cuddles and played in the playground as well as pushing a buggy during this time......I finally got to meet my lovely new niece Kezia Rose, and of course her big brother Nathanael.

And then of course, there was the approx 45 minutes where we siblings were all together..and we laughed and laughed and laughed.....you should see the photos that didn't make it into the public domain! Fun times!

I was back home again by 7pm on Saturday, having been blessed with safe keeping and smooth journeys.Only problem is, now I have done it once, I want to do it again..........

Merging Calvinism with Worldliness

2009-06-14T14:16:00.000-07:00

Some sound Christian counsel is to be found here http://www.metropolitantabernacle.org/?page=articles&id=13

There's a tiger on the loose!

2009-05-26T07:26:00.000-07:00

As daddy was on a 12 hour shift (Saturday), Nanny and Grandad kindly proposed a picnic on the mIllenium Green. The boys had a lovely time. Grandad had to go into hospital on Saturday night and is still there but he is OK.

On Monday we went to a 'biggest picnic record attempt' in rock Park..in the drizzley rain as only ture Brits would!" Daniel had his face painted (and waited very patiently in line for approx 45 mins!)

My gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous little boys (not that I am biased!)

I have not yet made it to London to visit my new niece.....maybe in about three weeks time :(......she will be a month old by then!

Face of Betrayal

2009-05-18T02:15:00.001-07:00

What a refreshing experience this was to read. A thriller with no blasphemy, no swearing, and no overtly sexual content which delivered a great read. You can feel the authenticity of the characters and the situations they deal with thanks to the experience of the author Lis Wiehl.
There is the main plot-who killed Katie Converse- along with other sub plots- who wants revenge on Alison?..and will Cassidy fall into a harmful relationship ?. The three female characters are very different and yet an honest portrayal of the different character types we meet every day.Most refreshing of all is that Lis is not afraidto quote scripture or to bring in strong moral lessons in this book. The short chapters make it easier to follow the varying threads. I picked this book up and found it hard to put down- so go ahead and read it but make sure your to do list is finished first!

Here is a video clip in which Lis Wiehl speaks about the book:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lXAwjTvjUaa

it is not death to die

2009-05-14T07:18:00.000-07:00

This is an incredible video. A wife and mother who is dying gives testimony to her faith in the Lord. Watch it...with tissues handy.

Thanks to Elaine for drawing my attention to it. Take the time to watch it.

The Cookie Thief

2009-05-05T06:46:00.000-07:00

The Cookie Thief

Valerie Cox

A woman was waiting at an airport one night,

With several long hours before her flight,

She hunted for a book in the airport shop,

Bought a bag of cookies and found a place to drop.

She was engrossed in her book, but happened to see,

That the man sitting beside her, as bold as could be,

Grabbed a cookie or two from the bag between,

Which she tried to ignore, to avoid a scene.

She read, munched cookies, and watched the clock,

As the gutsy 'cookie thief' diminished her stock.

She was getting more irritated as the minutes ticked by,

Thinking,"If I wasn't so nice , I would blacken his eye!"

With each cookie she took, he took one too.

One only one was left, she wondered what he would do

With a smile on his face, and a nervous laugh,

He took the last one and broke it in half.

He offered her half, as he ate the other.

She snatched it from him and thought, Oh brother,

This guy has some nerve and he's also rude.

Why, he didn't even show any gratitude!

She had never known when she had been so galled,

And sighed with relief when her flight was called.

She gathered her belongings and headed to the gate,

Refusing to look back at the 'thieving ingrate.'

She boarded the plane and sank in her seat,

Then sought her book which was almost complete.

As she reached in her baggage, she gasped with surprise:

There were her cookies in front of her eyes.

If mine are here, she moaned with despair,

Then the others were his and he tried to share!

Too late to apologise, she realized with grief,

That she was the rude one, the ingrate, the thief!

I found this in the book The Law of Kindness by Mary Beeke (a recommended read for anyone). It is in the chapter on 'kind thoughts'. I know I have been guilty of assuming the worst or thinking ill of people by jumping to conclusions.

A True Intellectual

2009-04-26T12:22:00.001-07:00

Looking good in daddy's glasses.....

and we can't forget tigger boy.

One for the coffee table

2009-04-22T07:00:00.000-07:00

http://www.thomasnelson.com/consumer/product_detail.asp?sku=1404104828

This book caught my breath from the moment I saw it. It shouts out 'worth a look' and is beautifully presented. The photographs taken by Ken Duncan are breathtaking and can be looked at time and time again. Much of the interest lies in the fact that they are of places that are read about in the Bible. However, it is not just Mr Duncan's photos that make this book so appealing. The mixture of quotations and scripture texts (mostly KJV) are well thought through and very apt. This book brings to life the map style pictures we are used to of the Apostle Paul's journeys. Above all, it ultimately draws attention not to Mr Duncan, but to Paul's Saviour. The introduction itself makes clear that this is the prime purpose of the book.

This book would sit nicely on your coffee table for guests to look through. It would help greatly in preparing talks about the life of Paul, and providing illustration. It would make a fantastic gift to give and to receive.

My Life As A South-East Country Wife: Who Would Comfort? (Part Two)

2009-04-22T01:09:00.000-07:00

My Life As A South-East Country Wife: Who Would Comfort? (Part Two)

This whole blog is woth reading, but sepecially this post (and the one before) where the subject of comforting is raised- for those who are going through trials and for those who are not.

and while we are on the subject of links, this makes excellent reading.http://teampyro.blogspot.com/2009/04/porn-and-paper-pastors.html
and this was discovered at http://www.glosbaptist.wordpress.com thanks big brother :)

Mother of the Year award

2009-04-20T11:18:00.000-07:00

Yep, I have decided to nominate myself for it. After all, my 18 month old son knows exactly what to do when I ask 'would you like to watch something?' He heads straight for the sofa and gets comfy. And today, when I asked 'what would you like to watch' he replied 'Bob!' and then proceeded to pull out the bob DVD and give it to me (sometime he pushes it right into my face in case I haven't got the message). So I definitely win the prize for most creative and one on one time spent with my toddler :)

He is a bit too clever for my liking.....a regular copy cat. After eating some chocolate buttons (oops, they may take my award away!) he screwed up the bag, toddled to the bin and threw it in- I was really chuffed as I have never shown him how to do that.

Some pictures at some point....maybe....when I have the will to get organised. We have been living in tummybugs ville for a while....just emerging from the vaporous haze now.

Portrait

2009-03-25T14:40:00.001-07:00

This is me.....good likeness huh? The round blob is my head. The 'neck' and horizontal line underneath is my body. Then I have 5 arms (!) 2 legs, and you can see my feet in the centre. It was drawn by Daniel on the envelope of my mothers day card. When I protested as he proceeded to rip the head he said 'you can fix it with sellotape mummy'.........oh if only everything could be fixed with a piece of sellotape :) Life would be much simpler. That is his answer to most things though 'fix it with sellotape/glue mummy'. Last week Nanny kindly bought the boys a magazine each. Whilst I was upstairs I became aware of a ripping noise and hurrying downstairs I found Bob and Thomas strewn all over the place. On informing Daniel that Mummy would NOT be fixing the multiple pieces of paper back together with tape, he said' we will take them back to the shop to be fixed'- ahhhh the innocence. Imagine walking into a newsagents with shredded magazine and asking for it to be fixed or for a replacement!

January, February, March...ing onwards

2009-03-14T11:59:00.000-07:00

Middle of March? Goodness me! So what has happened. Pre-school business has kept me very busy...I am hoping for a lull with the Easter holidays. I have painted the kitchen and a man is coming to measure up next week and inform us how much a new kitchen would cost....too much I think! Apart from that it is life as usual with all the attendant colds and broken nights :) There is a baptism at our church tomorrow which is wonderful- the baptistry seems to stay closed for such long periods of time.
We have taken our house off the market- it does not appear that it is the lord's will for us to move at the current time and we are both very peaceful about this.

In conversation with Daniel this morning:
D- I like you sometimes Mummy
M- Only sometimes?
D- I like you all the time sometimes mummy
M -Oh
D - I like you in Spring and Winter and Summer (been learning seasons at pre-school)
M- What about Autumn
D- No, I don't like you in Autumn- but I will like you next Autumn!

Ha ha ha ha!

The Great Eight

2009-03-05T05:58:00.000-08:00

Book review of the Great Eight by Scott Hamilton with Ken Baker

I approached this book with some misgivings as it is not my usual reading material and I am often quite critical of 'self help I did it it my way' type books. However, it was far more informative than I had anticipated.

Scott Hamilton lays out the way in which he has survived a serious child hood illness, cancer and a brain tumour. As the sub title reads, the aim is to show how he has learnt 'to be happy even when he had every reason to be miserable'.
The book is full of illustrations from his personal life and his skating career and these make for interesting reading, especially if you are a fan of figure skating. Many of the situations he faced happened before he became a Christian and so the advice given here is a real mix.

Overall it is an interesting read. However, the lack of photos is a marked drawback. Also the fact that he repeats his points. As the book is not written following a time line but rather, built around his 8 steps to happiness, the reader has to jump back and forth in time with him. My favourite chapter was the one entitled 'Trust your Almighty coach' As a book written by a Christian I had hoped to see more reference to God in the 8 steps.
If you come to this book for a light, informing and soul cheering read then you will not be disappointed...especially if you like skating!

Life at 30

2009-02-25T23:53:00.001-08:00

I can't believe it is a week already since my birthday. I have to report that....life is just as busy now as it was at 29 :)! David had intended to give me a lie in, but by the time the children had jumped on me at 6.30 I decided to get up anyway.

We opened a couple of presents and had a relaxed morning. It was such a nice feeling- knowing that we were home together without any specific jobs to do or meetings to get to etc. Now, my female instincts told me that something was up.......and that it was probably the arrival of a family member......but I did not know who or when. This suspicion was heightened by the fact that David looked out of the corner of his eye each time we heard a car.........

Just after 10 the doorbell went- I looked out the window and saw my Dad! Of all the people I had though to see it was not him. How very sweet and lovely. He had come down the night before apparently and stayed nearby. The only downside was that he had to leave again at 2.30 pm.

So we opened more presents and went for a walk in the village (we had run out of tea bags!) On our return, a bouquet of flowers and a balloon were delivered from the Ransons (thank you dearies) which was very lovely too!

In fact, my front room is full of flowers (thank you David, Dad, Anna and Tim, Mark and Sarah and Janet!) I knew we were heading off to David's parents for lunch...although I thought there was more to it. I was still totally taken by surprise when I walked into find about 21 church members/friends crammed in there singing happy birthday. That new conservatory certainly came in handy! I knew Mike and Naomi would be there, but so was Abi and Michelle and lots of other lovely people. My mascara was in danger of running! And they had put on such a spread. This picture is actually taken AFTER we had all had firsts!

and this was the pudding table. The banoffee was fantastic!

Then there was the cake, lovingly made by David and Daniel. People gradually left, and Mike, Naomi, David and I plus 5 boys went out for a little walk. We got back about 1 1/2 hours later........We went home and had a take away- almost unheard of but hey, you're only 30 once hey!

Bringing in the cake....(it took two puffs to get the candles out!)

Some friends from church who joined in the celebrations ;)This was juts so cute. Little legs crossed and all!And finally- (wait for the howls from the very very good mummies out there)- if you need a bit of space to get dinner ready......Pepper Pig seems to do the trick!

The Barnabus award

2009-02-19T22:57:00.000-08:00

As you know this blog has changed a lot over the past year-it is now a place for family and friends and keeping up to date. So it was a lovely surprise to receive this award from Lizzie.

I have been humbled by several things over the past few days and this is one of them- I am very aware at the moment that any good in me is of the Lord and that I struggle to be the friend I should be. So here goes.

Rules:
*Link back to the person who gave you the award.
*Use my graphic (leaving my blog address on it)
*Share it with anyone who encourages you whether or not their blog is “spiritual”.
*Share this explanation
“Barnabas worked with the Apostle Paul.
We remember him for his encouragement and generosity. In this spirit, I’d like to let you know that you are a Barnabas in my life. Thank you!”

Now for the hard bit- to decide who to share it with. My blog reading time has been very minimal recently so the list will be quite short I think!

Clare (my sis-in-law) Despite her struggles she is always kind and cheerful.

Miriam- because she always makes me smile ;)

Elaine- this is always a good place to stop by for godly thoughts and blessing.

Ann- she always lifts your mind to beautiful things and devotional thoughts and she shares my love of hymns.

If you pop by today

2009-02-13T22:22:00.000-08:00

...then Happy Valentines day.Personally, I am spending it alone with the children.......who love me ;) (just as well really!) Whatever you do or don't do or celebrate may the lord richly bless you this weekend

Another 'I can't believe it'

2009-02-13T05:13:00.000-08:00

This article had the mums and I at support group staring at the paper in disbelief. More sex education? Take the hint IT ISN'T WORKING!!!!!! How about teaching self control instead? No, didn't think so. Having said that, well done them for not opting to abort this child- at least it has a chance at life.

I am shocked and saddened

2009-02-12T14:38:00.000-08:00

...by this news article today. Everything about it seems rotten and we all need to pray- parents and teachers especially. I know this matter would be handled differently from school to school but is has worrying implications- and I cannot believe the subsequent actions of the head teacher. This is very disturbing.

Just to say...

2009-02-10T12:18:00.000-08:00

...I am truly blessed with a bundle of happy loving life. I know I have found/ still find motherhood hard work and have mentioned that here before. But I love my boys dearly and seeing them grow and learn and play and laugh each day is a beautiful gift from God. Not forgetting my dear husband who has put up with me for 9 years. I just wanted to let you know that I do count my blessings despite the down days!

Words speak

2009-02-05T11:33:00.000-08:00

I have a perpetual calendar at home with hymn verses written by women. This was the one for today and it was so apt

I am praying, blessed Saviour,
To be more and more like Thee;
I am praying that Thy Spirit
Like a dove may rest on me

Thou who knowest all my weakness,
Thou who knowest all my care,
While I plead each precious promise,
Hear, O hear, and answer prayer.

Frances Jane Alstyne (Fanny Crosby) Scripture ref: 2 Corinthians 3 v 17-18

I also read these words : 'Courage is fear that has said its prayers' (Dorothy Bernard)
That made me think.

On a completely different note, this article makes interesting reading- although it will get the avid feminists up in arms. I wonder though, if you can say that being at home with children/husband is what truly satisfies a woman?......I am not sure that is true.

February part one

2009-02-04T11:01:00.001-08:00

I have been chided (yet again) for failure to update my blog (you know who you are! :)

It just has not been a priority- even with cutting down on time spent on facebook!

So, what has been happening in Berryville? Matthew has two new teeth ( and boy did we all suffer), I have done lots of thinking about different issues such as discipline, home schooling and various other subjects (courtesy of the girls coffee shop- a private blog). I have also just about kept up with a daily bible reading scheme- you read through 4 books at the same time and complete the bible in a year. I am really enjoying it.

Of great importance is that fact that Daniel's new inhaler matches my bathroom decor- so considerate of him to need a lilac inhaler! We took him back to the asthma nurse and she confirmed that he was not well controlled. Apparently a well controlled child only needs their reliever 2-3 time a year (apart from when they have a cough/cold).....erm, so 2-3 times a day isn't good then.......

Anyway, he is now on serotide which seems to be working better than the steroid he was on before. He is still isn't symptom free though, but he has coped well with the recent weather. We are keeping a diary for 2 weeks of all symptoms or different behaviours. One downside is that he is waking up again at night- not sure why- and running into our room to sleep.

Pre school was shut yesterday due to the snow- it could have opened but as the school was shut they decided to shut too. Most of the snow has melted now though. Any readers not form the UK may wonder what all the fuss is about. But, you see, it happens so rarely. Most years we get no snow, and when it does show it is only usually a light scattering. So this past week has been one of total disruption....but the children all loved it!

Of course, Monday was the big day- Daniel turned 4. We had a lovely time together- he had a little party (despite the snow!) Thankfully all the children lived locally or I may have ended up with a sleep over of 5 five year olds, one 2 year old and Matthew.......arrggghhhhhhh!

We had hoped to pop to Cheltenham this week but the forecast has put us off. Life is still pretty busy .......and I know my husband is up to something......although he declines to comment.......something to do with February 19th..........so I must practice my patience and wait to be surprised. I kind of wish I hadn't asked....but then I wanted to know if nothing was happening so I could prepare myself to be gracious.........Can't win can I?!

Here are some pics- more are on my fb account if you are my friend :)!

The cake ( I must resist..........)
Birthday boy wiht his bike and balloonBlowing out the candles

Our snowy Tuesday. I took some lovely pictures of the snow on the trees........next years Christmas cards perhaps????!

At times this month I have read hymns or thought 'I must share that on the blog'...and the time has gone and the thought has slipped my mind (Which is akin to a sieve at the moment!). But if you are just here for an update then I hope that this is a satifactory post ;) !

2009-02-02T05:13:00.001-08:00

Did you know that parents were irresponsible in having more than 2 children becasue of the effect on the environmet? .....a ha.........so says Jonathan Porritt.
So if I want to please him it looks like I have had my lot. What waffle. We may not need to 'go forth and multiply' as in bible times, but really. The God who made this earth and creates each life on it is not threatened by more than 2 children per family!

Lizzie Norris

2009-01-23T13:36:00.001-08:00

Those of you who read here will know I link to Lizzie from a dusty frame. This is a way to support her and I wanted to share it.If you have never read her blog then do. I know there are gazillions of people out there who need help, prayer and support but the Lord has brought Lizzie into my 'cyber' world and so I want to 'share'her with you.

Welcome to Boomtown- slugs, explosions and lots of fun

2009-01-17T13:19:00.000-08:00

There were two disadvantages to me reviewing this book. Firstly I am not a child (well, not in theory anyway) and secondly I am not American. However, these things did not deter me! Boomtown (Book one) Chang's Fireworks Factory, is a work of pure fiction, although the introduction 'after reading this account, you'll probably think I made the whole thing up. It certainly sounds like I did. But I promise you, it's all true' could catch the unwary by surprise! The key to approaching this book is by reading the authors name (something that I failed to do) Nowen.N. Particular is a giveaway that what is to come is indeed, pure fantasy.

It follows Pastor Button, his wife and three children as they move to Boomtown, where he is taking up a new ministry. Boom being the operative word. There are enough explosions in the book to keep any child happy. Add to that the acrobatic Indians, the wonderful inventions in the museum, the delightful characters who live in the town and of course, a mystery to be solved, and you have the makings of a book that will keep young minds entertained for quite some time. Maybe it should come with a health warning 'Do not try any of these things at home'.

As an adult it certainly had me smiling- from the pastors hall of fame (or should I say doom?) to the caricatures of the townsfolk it is a book you would enjoy reading our loud to a child. There is also the promise of a second book to come. I would suggest this book would be suitable from 8+ years.

I would just issue a slight caution for parents to think about. Firstly it is ecumenical in its treatment of all the churches and pastors in the town. There are three of them- all characters in their own right-and they join together for several events. Secondly, Sunday is not viewed as a day set aside only for the Lord. Again, I understand that in America Sunday is treated differently than it is here by some, but parents may want to be aware of this.

January, January, wherefore art thou January?

2009-01-13T12:02:00.001-08:00

If I had made a new years resolution you would be forgiven for thinking it was a resolution not to blog! December ended in busyness , after the brief lull of Christmas, January has raced in like a whirlwind. They have been very few spare moments- or at least, moments when I can get my thoughts into some coherent order!

We were able to make it to London at Christmas- Daniel's health improved and we are thankful that both the boys slept well while we were away and had a lovely time. Anna was a great help in playing with them and freeing David and I up :) The boys have continued generally well although Matthew seems to be suffering somewhat with an upset tummy. New Year was spent here with David's family - unfortunately several of us were ill afterwards.

We had the great joy of attending the induction of Jonathan Munday as Pastor of Exeter Independent Evangelical Church on the 3rd of January. This is a place where David has preached several times and we have known of this church since its beginning. Then last Saturday I was able to travel to Swindon (David was at LRBS) for the induction of Fraser Kay as the Pastor of North Swindon Baptist Church. Fraser is our Pastor's son and it was a time of great rejoicing and blessing. Several people who had attended Exeter were there too- so the question was- what shall we all do next Saturday?! Hopefully have a quiet day at home with the family! David has had very little time with us recently. However we were able to spend Thursday 8th January together- our 9th anniversary. He took me to lunch at the Fulham Restaurant - most scrumptious! Afterwards we were able to attend a prayer meeting- we have a week of prayer at our church every January and on the Thursday the meeting is in the afternoon.

So what with work and homemaking/family caring and church responsibilities, our little lives have been packed. Apologies if I have not visited many blogs- it is nothing personal......and facebook does distract me somewhat!

Table for 17 please!

Admiring the pile of presents and a chilly Boxing Day walk.So I think that is us all up to date. Now I have the joy of a rent review meeting with the local parish council to look forward to........and the task of organising a birthday for a 4 year old.

Christmas Bleatings

2008-12-22T13:23:00.000-08:00

The days of December have rushed by. 6 weeks ago I was talking to Clare, who had all her gifts wrapped and ready. I was most impressed but said something along the lines of 'I don't like to do it too early- I like all the Christmas busyness just before hand'. She wisely said '6 weeks passes very fast'. Ahem. 3 days until Christmas and where are all the presents? In various bags and boxes. Mind you, still not as bad as last year when I was wrapping late on Christmas eve. Thankfully. my dear m-i-l is having the boys on Wednesday so I can really get down to business. David is working right up until Christmas eve at 7.30pm. Apart from Sunday that will have been 5 days solid which is quite unusual for him.

So what have we been up to? A visit to the local garden centre to see the Santa band and the lights, along with Nanny and Grandad.

The Pre-School nativity play, where Daniel was a rabbit (!) and the committee ran refreshments, and some mad woman stood at the front of the hall trying to yell out raffle prize numbers above the noise :)
Of course we can't forget decorating the tree, and the words 'oh wow' were distinctly heard from Matthew's lips. Notice the strategic placing of tree in playpen. Boy am I glad I did that. Matthew has absolutely taken off. I had to get another safety gate today (yes, we are now a 3 gate family) as although I had blocked the top of the stairs,he can open the front room door and would merrily spend all day going up and down. Although he can do this safely, his habit of standing up at the top and rattling the gate bars left me in a constant state of agitation. No more!

The there was the pre-school party. As you can see, Matthew joined in with gusto. Daniel spent the first part in the kitchen as he did not like the noise generated by the children's entertainer. He is still very sensitive to loud noise.

'Santa' popped by. It was quite amusing. All the children were excited, but when they had to collect their gifts from him they took them and legged it back to the mat, saying a 'thank you' on the way. I only just managed to get this picture of Daniel! It was all too much for Matthew- must have been- to fall asleep when eating is not usually on his agenda.

We have had the usual bout of coughs and colds. Daniel has caused us some concern this week. His steroid dose was upped last week as his asthma was not as well controlled. The he was pretty poorly on Sunday and we were up a lot of last night. He is currently asleep but is hacking away. I think he is over the worst though- he was only sick once today. God willing he will be well for Christmas. I do not like him having lots of steroids, but without them I think we would be back in hospital.

Of course, all the fun aside, this is a special time of year for those who love Christ. I know we do not know when Jesus was born, and I know that a lot of 'other' influences are included in Christmas traditions. But I am thankful for this time to specifically remember Christ's birth and what it means. God in human form- what an awesome concept. A virgin birth, so maligned today- but without it, He would not have been God. Most of all, the truth if why Christ Jesus came- to live and then to die- His birth would have been pointless in terms of eternity if He had not died at Calvary and taken the punishment so richly deserved by us all. Just a brief glance at this world over the past year is surely enough to stop any from thinking we are getting better or could possibly please God by ourselves.. There is so much wonderful joy and amazement in the true message of this time of year- that Christ Jesus did indeed come to bring peace on earth. Not the peace that we talk about, but peace between God and men. Until all men know this, there will not be the 'peace' that many long for. So if you read this and love the Lord, I wish you every joy and happiness at this time of year and great blessing of soul. If you have no idea what I am talking about and want to skip this part- please stop. Think. There is so much wonder and joy and blessing that you are missing.If you cannot see it, ask Him to open your eyes- even if you do not 'know how to pray'- if you say those words and mean it, He will do it. He has promised to. He can show the truth about faith in Christ Jesus- and above all an eternal security because He came to save His people from their sins. You. Me. If you will trust in Him and seek His face.

So I wish you all a very happy Christmas and a peaceful 2009

So I leave you with a silent Santa band.....if you have had your fill of Christmas music you will be glad my camera is soundless!

Got a crying, WALKING, sleeping, talking living doll!

2008-12-13T08:37:00.000-08:00

Here we go, here we go here we go!

2008-12-11T15:16:00.000-08:00

How amazing. Even though I cannot play my videos on the computer they are uploading.Woohoo. Trouble is I have no idea which ones i am uploading :) Never mind. No sound :( but I think we were having fun! Must try and get some walking action footage.

Busy walking and learning.

2008-12-08T14:03:00.000-08:00

I am frustrated. My camera records video footage (albeit without sound) and I could easily get it onto blogger on the old computer. However, although I can upload it onto my computer I cannot even play it, let alone move it else where, so pictures will have to suffice.

Matthew is coming on in leaps and bounds. He goes from sit-stand unaided and can take 5-6 steps before falling. There is going to be no stopping him now! The Christmas shopping is all done...well, apart from David's present to me! However, no cards have been written and nothing is wrapped. Daniel is lovely- learning new things day by day and coming out with long and complex sentences.

I am loving the build up to Christmas. Daniel's enjoyment of it all is priceless. Lights and Christmas trees thrill him. Ours will not be up for another week or so but you should have seen his face when the tree went up at pre school! He has also learnt to sing the first verse of 'away in a manger'. I love Christmas hymns. Of course, I am busier this year than I have been before due to pre school events and being the committee chair. Things are slowly getting done though. This week it is lovely to have David at home for a few days- he is not working until Wednesday. He and his dad are planning a trip to the library tomorrow to track down some of their ancestry.

Nanny and the boys.Two cheeky chappies

Fancy dress days at pre school- and yes, Daniel was the only child in a 'made by mummy' outfit. He makes a charming snowflake though don't you think?!

2008-12-04T13:27:00.000-08:00

Gosh- December 4th already! I have lots of pictures and video to post but just have not got around to it (or a round tuit- private joke). Just to say we are still here, and what with various commitments this is the busiest December I can remember so far. Will post again properly soon :)

The Moon Shines Down

2008-11-26T11:45:00.000-08:00

*I have signed up to do book reviews for Thomas Nelson and this is my first one*

http://www.thomasnelson.com/consumer/product_detail.asp?sku=140031299X

This is a children's book which immediately catches the eye with its A4 sized pages and bright front cover illustration. According to the blurb, the manuscript for this book lay forgotten for many years. It has been added to, giving it greater length. Many children know the words 'I see the moon and the moon sees me. God bless the moon and God bless me' The book begins in Holland, as we follow a Koala on his journey around the world. He visits Switzerland,the Far East, Mexico, France,Australia, England and Africa, as well as taking a look beneath the ocean. The pictures are full of interest and children will enjoy looking at the animals, clothes,buildings and landmarks which feature for each country. The general message is that the moon shines down on us all here on God's earth and that we can pray for God's blessing on each other wherever we are. It carries a good message of equality no matter what race, and an unstated teaching that God sees us all and that this world is His creation. It also gives a good opportunity to help form the habit of praying before bed.My son enjoyed his first reading of this book and I am sure it will be opened many times again. There are two pages which turn the theme to Christmas which seems a bit out if keeping with the rest of the book. If you want something that rhymes well throughout and a rythmn which is easy to follow then you may be disappointed. Overall this is a sweet and well illustrated book but I am unsure as to whether it will become a 'soon-to-be classic' as the dust cover states.

What a mug

2008-11-21T11:29:00.000-08:00

They say you can tell a persons personality by the mug they drink from.......well, maybe I just made that up but here is why!

The Nutty Nurse gave this to me for Christmas (I think) last year but I have only just started using it. We used to watch wonder woman as kiddies and I even dressed up as her aged about 8, for a fancy dress party. (I hasten to add that my top was a lot less revealing!) Sadly, I personally have no photos of that event (off rush siblings to raid parents album.......)

Dare to discipline

2008-11-17T05:53:00.001-08:00

The insanity of this country is just beyond me. Baby P gets abused over time and later dies. But Dad on the other hand,disciplines his son and look what happens!
Whether or not it is wise to discipline your child in public isn't really the issue here is it?

Hat tip to Glosbaptist for drawing attention to this one.

Not much happening that day......

2008-11-13T08:33:00.001-08:00

The other me :)

2008-11-10T11:17:00.000-08:00

Your Pilgrim Name Is

Damaris Soule

What's" Your Pilgrim Name?

One reason I won't be returning to work!

2008-11-10T08:40:00.002-08:00

The following conversation took place at David's work place. They have a bran tub/secret Santa each year, which is a really nice idea. Every one's name is put on a bit of paper, then each member of staff pulls one out and buys a Christmas present for the person written down. Only one person knows who is buying for whom, as they frequently forget. The conversation is not an exact record, but the sentiments were these.

D: ' I have got _____. How much is the gift meant to be worth?
P: Between £7-£10 ($11-16)(it used to be £5 max!)
D: What? That is more than we will probably spend on some family members!
P: You are joking? That is so tight! Why don't you spend more on people?
D: Because we don't have the money too. It is more important to us to just spend time together as a family.
P: (she just didn't get it and could not believe what David was saying). Why doesn't Susanna go to work then- that way you could buy expensive presents for people.

I have to confess to be gobsmacked at this. I had never heard someone say a Mum should work just so she can buy expensive presents for other people. I will just clarify here that I know there are mums who have to work and I am NOT having a go. Now, I am the first to admit that I love presents :) and that I miss my salary. Once I was earning I loved the fact that I could spend x amount on a sibling or loved friends/family without having to pinch the pennies too much. Birthdays tended to be the time when I would spend more on an individual though. I have found it hard (still do at times) to know I can no longer spend more, and have had to learn to appreciate the real value of small gifts. After all, a £5 gift from someone who only has £30 to spare a month is of greater value than a £30 gift from someone who has plenty to spare.

But- work just so I can afford gifts? Put my little children into childcare to satisfy the expectations of other people? I think not! I may well go back to some kind of work in the future- but it will be because it is needed rather than just to feather my nest. I am aware though of many who feel it is necessary to earn in order to have all the extras- it is a mind set.
Then on Sunday, a friend was telling me that because she does not spend money she doesn't have in order to please family, they have started getting her small presents whilst still spending a lot on each other. I love this season, but even I feel the pressure the consumerism puts on people. It is so easy to want more more more. I guess I just cannot compare my children's early years to an expensive holiday or lovely clothes or home furnishings or expensive presents. I am so thankful that God in His mercy is teaching me what is of true value- and that I can rejoice with or without gifts (although preferably with!) in the season when we remember specifically Jesus' glorious incarnation.

2008-11-06T05:11:00.001-08:00

'Bust my buffers' as Thomas the Tank Engine would say. Sadly it is not my buffers I have 'bust' but my left knee. Ironically it has happened after I have spent two weeks getting out for long walks in order to exercise.

It started last Saturday- just as a feeling of 'oddness'. By Monday it was more painful and felt like it was going to give out, especially on the stairs. I cannot bend it very well, or kneel down, or walk up the stairs in the elegant fashion that I am accustomed to (!).....and if the children happen to lean or sit on it ......SCREAMMMMMMMM!!!!!

No, before you ask, I have not yet seen the doctor. I am booked in for next Thursday, but promise to go sooner if it does not get better. As you can imagine, the upstairs toilet and pre schooler who needs help to use it are a bit of a problem, as is the escape artist one year old when I have to make a dive for him!

Not quite sure what has started it although about a week ago I was climbing over the safety gate (as you do, and smacked my bent knee into the door post. It hurt but no bruise appeared....maybe related, maybe not.

So, if you can spare a minute could you please pray that it does not get any worse :)

Daniel's artwork- he did a picture for each of us.

Yummy, choclate cake (or was it muffin?)

Update- I went to the rapid access clinic today. The doctor basically said I had just bruised the bone of my knee cap and that time, rest (ha!) and ibuprofen should sort it out. We'll see.......

Laughing all the way

2008-11-04T14:24:00.000-08:00

Why Did the Chicken Cross the Road?

SARAH PALIN: Before it got to the other side, I shot the chicken, cleaned and dressed it, and had chicken burgers for lunch.

BARACK OBAMA: The chicken crossed the road because it was time for a change! The chicken wanted change!

JOHN MC CAIN: My friends that chicken crossed the road because he recognized the need to engage in cooperation and dialogue with all the chickens on the other side of the road.

HILLARY CLINTON: When I was First Lady, I personally helped that little chicken to cross the road. This experience makes me uniquely qualified to ensure right from Day One that every chicken in this country gets the chance it deserves to cross the road. But then, this really isn’t about me.

GEORGE W. BUSH: We don’t really care why the chicken crossed the road. We just want to know if the chicken is on our side of the road, or not. The chicken is either against us, or for us. There is no middle ground here.

DICK CHENEY: Where’s my gun?

COLIN POWELL: Now to the left of the screen, you can clearly see the satellite image of the chicken crossing the road.

BILL CLINTON: I did not cross the road with that chicken. What is your definition of chicken?

AL GORE: I invented the chicken.

JOHN KERRY: Although I voted to let the chicken cross the road, I am now against it! It was the wrong road to cross, and I was misled about the chicken’s intentions. I am not for it now and will remain against it.

AL SHARPTON: Why are all the chickens white? We need some black chickens.

DR. PHIL: The problem we have here is that this chicken doesn’t realize that he must first deal with the problem on this side of the road before it goes after the problem on the other side of the road. What we need to do is help him realize how stupid he’s acting by not taking on his current problems before adding new problems.

OPRAH: Well, I understand that the chicken is having problems, which is why he wants to cross this road so bad. So instead of having the chicken learn from his mistakes and take falls, which is a part of life, I’m going to give this chicken a car so that he can just drive across the road and not live his life like the rest of the chickens.

ANDERSON COOPER, CNN: We have reason to believe there is a chicken, but we have not yet been allowed access to the other side of the road.

NANCY GRACE: That chicken crossed the road because he’s guilty! You can see it in his eyes and the way he walks.

PAT BUCHANAN: To steal the job of a decent, hardworking American.

MARTHA STEWART: No one called me to warn me which way that chicken was going. I had a standing order at the Farmer’s Market to sell my eggs when the price dropped to a certain level. No little bird gave me any insider information.

DR SEUSS: Did the chicken cross the road? Did he cross it with a toad? Yes, the chicken crossed the road, but why it crossed I’ve not been told.

ERNEST HEMINGWAY: To die in the rain, alone.

GRANDPA: In my day we didn’t ask why the chicken crossed the road. Somebody told us the chicken crossed the road, and that was good enough.

BARBARA WALTERS: Isn’t that interesting? In a few moments, we will be listening to the chicken tell, for the first time, the heart-warming story of how it experienced a serious case of molting, and went on to accomplish its lifelong dream of crossing the road.

ARISTOTLE: It is the nature of chickens to cross the road.

JOHN LENNON: Imagine all the chickens in the world crossing roads together, in peace.

BILL GATES: I have just released eChicken 2008, which will not only cross roads, but will lay eggs, file your important documents, and balance your checkbook. Internet Explorer is an integral part of eChicken 2008. This new platform is much more stable and will never crash or need to be rebooted.

ALBERT EINSTEIN: Did the chicken really cross the road, or did the road move beneath the chicken?

COLONEL SANDERS: Did I miss one?

I go this from The Mom...and if you scroll down to her next post that will make you laugh too. I may borrow it like I did this one :)

Heard in our house

2008-11-03T04:32:00.000-08:00

Matthew had been asleep on the settee and I had been telling Daniel not to disturb him (he kept putting his face on Matthew's forehead).

I was in the kitchen when I heard these words "Hello baby, its lovely to see you again darling". Cue mummy laughing her head off while a sleepy Matthew and bemused Daniel look on and wonder who the insane woman is :)

Yesterday he also referred to Matthew as 'Sweetheart'. He is just soooooooooooooo cute!

Happy

2008-11-01T08:31:00.001-07:00

I love turning the page on the calendar for the beginning of a new month. It is somehow exciting (especially a this time of year). I also love how it is cold! OK, so my feet, nose and hands get regularly chilled now, but after all the odd summer weather we have had, it is good to have a season that feels like it should. I have been out on 3 walks this week (I know, I am in shock too!) and have really enjoyed them. (shame about the biscuits I ate afterwards when I got hungry.......)

I cannot put my finger on it but this week I have been really joyful. The sleep pattern is marginally better but not by much. But everything and everyone here seems to be on a more even keel. The boys are less grumpy and playing more happily. I have more time and am missing them today as they are at my m-i-l for a few hours. I do like being snuggly inside when it is cold outside, and I am a sucker for counting down to Christmas. But again, I don't think that is the reason. I have suddenly realised what it is like to be content at home with my children. Praise God! Even the days which promised to be more stressful were better managed. I do not know why I have been given this blessing but I am so thankful for it.

I was blessed by attending church last Sunday evening thanks to my m-i-l. By God's strengthening I have also been able to cut out a lot of what I was watching on T.V with no real desire to go back to it. I am sure this was the cause of much dissatisfaction, however much I didn't intend it to be. Life is busy and will be busier over the next few weeks with David out for much of the time. Even this is not giving me the same listless feeling that it used to.

My Heavenly Father is indeed gracious and kind. I read a verse this week , (paraphrased)- 'The Lord is my life'-(Deut 30 v 20) and it has stuck with me. He is truly the giver of all things.

I am so thankful that these 3 beautiful people are in my life and I pray that I will have the grace to be a worthy wife and mother to them. Those of you who know me will know what an enormous blessing such a feeling of joy and quiet peace is to me.

I am linking this to Lizzie's Works of God Weekend.

Jingle Bells!

2008-10-29T12:03:00.000-07:00

October? It felt more like December to me today. Frost on the car and a decided chill in the air that lasted all day. David was at home today which was very nice...he is home again tomorrow- woohoo! November is set to be a very busy month with work, training, preaching, preparation and a creation study day at church, so I am trying to appreciate days like today.

Of course, the problem with the weather being like this is that I start to get what I call my 'christmasy' feeling. But it is far too early for that. How depressing to feel that way when there are still at least 8 weeks to go! On Monday, as we walked around Tesco, Daniel started singing 'Jingle bells' at the top of his voice. Now, I personally think a happy child in the supermarket beats a screaming one hands down, but I have to confess to feeling a little embarrassed. I wanted to say 'we are not doing Christmas things yet, honest!'. He finally headed my pleas and began on 'baa baa black sheep' He then alternated between these two songs for about 10 minutes, up and down the aisles!
We had a little look at the Lidl Christmas food market today.....and practiced great self restraint (maybe one salary does have its advantages after all!). Daniel has already informed me that Santa will come down the chimney(!)- he got this from an episode of Peppa Pig! I think he will love Christmas time this year and consequently so will I.....not that I dislike it ( as you may have guessed!)

I am now the chair of the pre-school committee.....and wondering why! Never mind, I am promised for at least the next year so I had better get on with it. First job, review all the staff appraisals and sort out matters arising.....alrighty then!

OK, just tried to post some pics but it did not work and I am not in the mood for faffing around ;) So will just have to post them another time.

Another year has passed.

2008-10-25T13:55:00.001-07:00

2 weeks ago it was Matthew's first birthday. This past year has flown by. Although I have found life with 2 quite tough at times, it has also been an amazing time. My two boys are wonderful gifts from God, so alike and yet so different. We went to London for the weekend so David could attend seminary, and Grandma and 'Panpa' got to see Matthew on his birthday. There were whistle stop visits to great grandma and great auntie Pom, Anna and gorgeous baby Cassia, auntie Mim and of course the socialising at the Hunt household! On Matthew's birthday (the Sunday) his cousins Eben, Jacob and Luke and Uncle Mike and Auntie Naomi, and cousin Nathanael, Uncle David and Auntie Mim all piled round to my parents after their various Sunday School responsibilities for a busy but fun tea time.

We were meant to go on to Wales but the boys gave us very little sleep and Daniel was not 100% (not even 85 %) so we decided to stay in London a bit longer.....and it was great to be able to relax there and not to have to run back for this or that commitment. I even got a trip to Blue Water!

So now for some pictures (I was told today it was time I did another picture post!)

Here we have a mummy creation inspired by daddy's' architectural design! Knew that design technology class would come in handy sometime!

Oh ho I love this boy!Unfortunately he was not so obliging when it came to having a photo with great grandma!Once again I obviously had too much time on my hands!My beautiful one year old.

Matthew didn't really get the whole present opening thing but Daniel was more than happy to help.

The cake that Grandma made.Cousin Nathanael....wondering why mummy left him with that strange woman called Auntie Susanna.Six boys around my parents table.Matt and Nat (this could get confusing!)

More pictures to follow another time. David has just reminded me that the clocks go back tonight...woohooo! An extra hour. I just hope the boys cotton on!

For Fun

2008-10-08T05:25:00.000-07:00

What Your Handbag Says About You

You tend to be relaxed throughout the day. You are naturally at peace.

You are a low maintenance person. You can adapt to a variety of situations.

You are open and comfortable with who you are. You don't hide anything.

You are practical and down to earth. You tend to be a rather reserved and quiet person.

What Does Your Handbag Say About You?

Do you agree? Not sure about the ;being a quiet person' bit...but maybe I am in my own way!

Just a note

2008-10-03T11:28:00.000-07:00

I came across this on Monday and it has saddened me all week. Lets pray for this family in their shocking loss.

Blackberries and things.

2008-09-30T13:32:00.000-07:00

On Saturday we went blackberry picking- well, the boys and I did. David was at work but it was a good way to take up a couple of hours. Walking down the country lanes, past the fields with their hay bales and the sun glinting off everything it felt like I had stepped into a pastoral painting. Times like that make me very reluctant to move away from the village. However, the Lord has seen fit to grant us longer here (yippee) as the current financial and housing situation means we are well and truly 'stuck' here for now. Stuck in a lovely village.....gee what a hardship. Seriously though, I have been trying not to take it for granted as by next summer we may be on the estate- a move that is good for convenience and our service for the Lord. But then, when I consider that my parents never left London and along with many others have stayed there, faithfully serving in the church they attend, I realise that a move from a village to the outskirts of town is hardly a sacrifice.

Anyway, here are the blackberries- hardly a great haul but considering the very wet summer we have had, not bad- especially as I could not reach a lot of them! Many were still red and lots of the black ones were so tiny as to make it not worth picking them.

My chief picking assistant. He did really well and had a good long walk, but was too interested in his DVD to look at the camera! In fact, he rarely ever looks at the camera.

If you are interested, I have uploaded a couple of new photo albums to my f/book account.

I was 'home alone' with Matthew today. He is such a lovable bundle of energetic life and he absolutely love giving and receiving cuddles. He spends a lot of time standing up now, and I saw him furniture walking at church on Sunday. Anyway, he is so cute ( me, biased? never!) that I thought I would try and get a good picture of him. Ha! Who was I kidding! Just take a look at the results.

He just got closer and closer and closer......yes, you guessed it! He wanted another cuddle...and to play with the camera. And when he finally got down....he crawled away. I did manage to get one good one though and then had fun playing with it on my camera. Which do you like best?
OK, so now that I have totally bored you I will sign off for the evening. Even Mr Sen can't say there aren't enough photos in this post! :)

The garden visitor

2008-09-26T13:53:00.000-07:00

I was waving the boys off with Nanny the other day when something caught my eye. Something was moving in the grass in our front garden. It was this little guy! I say guy....could have been a girl. Anyway, I have now officially had a shrew in my front garden :) I got up really close and even touched it and it did not make much effort to run away. Wonder how long it survived in the big bad world of North Devon.......

I saw a Robin

2008-09-23T02:58:00.000-07:00

Two days ago I saw a Robin on my gate post. He was there again today. Robins are one of my favourite birds. I know they are highly territorial and can be a bit vicious but the bright red breast always cheers me up. Also, they always seem to come along when I am feeling a bit gloomy or sad and make me smile (but I wasn't feeling that way today :) So Autumn is truly here although we have had some lovely days this week. I sent Daniel off to pre-school without a coat this morning but am a bit worried he might get a bit chilly. He is now attending 5 sessions a week and although he enjoys it is getting pretty tired. He still goes to tiny tumblers too but I think I might stop that after Christmas. And Matthew- my baby- is nearly one. This 'year' has flown! Oh, I just realised I mentioned the 'C ' word. No getting away from it folks.....I have already seen some sneaky little Christmas helves appearing in shops....breaking us in gently before the onslaught! Actually, I really like it so I am happy! Matthew is now the master of the stairs- well, getting up them anyway! He crawls very fast and seems to be fearless, launching himself into, onto and over anything in his path. I feel I may have to buy his first pair of shoes before too long. I am going to put some photos on my F/B account as I can only upload 5 at a time here- but here are a few for now.

This was our summer- sunshine and showers. Here Mr and Mrs Glosbaptist munch lunch in between downpours.

Daniel on same occasion as above.Ahhhhhh- me and my mum on the self portrait setting.The Hunt invasion hits Whiddon Valley. Our Pastor and his wife kindly invited us all for a cream tea. Most scrumptious.....and then took lots of pics. Clare is hiding behind John in this one! This is taken outside my church.And this friends, is what happens when you leave an obstacle in Matthew's way. What a way to treat my card stock!

Wow

2008-09-19T13:15:00.001-07:00

I just popped by Lizzie's blog and found she had given me an award...what a way to start a new blog :) Unfortunately it was originated by someone speaking Portuguese and the translation has left the meaning somewhat vague (!). But I think the idea is celebrating how blogs draw us together. Anyhow, I'm not fussed- it is just nice to get it! I am meant to pass it on and will do sometime soon.

This is the translation that came with it.

"Proximidade award. “To translate the gift from Portuguese to English, it means:”This blog invests and believes, the proximity” [meaning, that blogging makes us 'close' -being close through proxy] How awesome is that?? They all are charmed with the blogs, where in the majority of its aims are to show the marvels and to do friendship; there are persons who are not interested when we give them a prize, and then they help to cut these bows; do we want that they are cut, or that they propagate? Then let’s try to give more attention to them! So with this prize we must deliver it to 8 bloggers that in turn must make the same thing and put this text.”
I clicked back through several links trying to discover where this originated, but gave up
after a while. It evidently began with someone who speaks Portuguese."

Any how, it is nice to get it so thank you Lizzie :)

New Beginnings

2008-09-19T13:15:00.000-07:00

Goodness knows why this took me so long.....it is hardly rocket science to set up a new blog. Anyway, here I am again in a different guise. I may actually just use my old template again but this will do for now.All I have to do is remember my new URL so I can get back here again :)